Just because you are reading of new ways to be cruel and immoral does not mean that you are yourself cruel and immoral. And demanding evidence that
every Bible reader is cruel and immoral is even further afield of his original claim.
I think it's perfectly reasonable to request a "start over" when a debate, which by nature is supposed to be polite and respectful, turns into an argument, which by nature is basically fighting with words instead of fists.
I couldn't agree more. When I first joined RF in '05, I jumped into a thread on Mormonism, was very "clever" and loose with the facts. I didn't have my facts straight on many points, and began to assail the BoM based on its grammar. After a few posts, I backtracked, apologized and proposed that we start over. I took full responsibility (because it was completely my fault). We remained civil, but ran into continued difficulty on the merits of certain arguments. The experience taught me to be more careful in how I address people on the forum, and be sure I say what I want to say.
In this case, though, I don't understand what Watchmen wants. He accused me of comparing God to Hitler (something I didn't do), and called me something that holds scented vinegar solutions. Then he wants to start over. Why should we start over when I'm not offended and I don't feel I've offended him? (I've given up on the discussion with Watchmen since then.) It seems to me that the mature thing to do, if he wants to continue a constructive conversation is provide his "answer" and go forward from there. If he doesn't want to, then he should say so. This "do-over" seems... petty to me. Just an opinion.
No. It's a request that they be reworded to be more respectful and polite, which I think is reasonable.
Respect and politeness are all great, and I try to be both. But if someone genuinely believes the God of the Bible is a genocidal maniac above and beyond Hitler (a defensible claim), then Watchmen would accuse him of being disrespectful, regardless of how polite he is.
We should be respectful of each other as persons, and respectful of the right we have to hold whatever beliefs we want. But those ideas themselves don't necessarily deserve to be respected.