See post #5, which lists 13 Bible versions that regard god in gender-neutral terms..
Yes, I did see that earlier. I am not able to translate from the original texts, so if I make a wrong assumption I will accept any correction. I feel if the original text is in masculine, feminine, or neutral reference it should be preserved as much to the original as possible. If someone reading feels to interpret this to mean the writer was using masculine as it is the way they wrote at that time that is up to them to decide.
However, for Christians, Jesus I feel is God and refers to God in the masculine. If that is true He would be the best source to convey how to reference God.
Now maybe He manifest Himself as male and referenced God as male because in the time Jesus was here it was better that way. I don't know. Myself, I don't see why He would be male or female, for us humans it is used to refer to a persons genitalia for reproduction, or the genetic coding you are born with, but I don't think he has a sex. Although, maybe it is because God the Father is Whom orders Creation by speaking, and the Holy Spirit (usually referred to in the feminine) moves over the Creation and brings it to life, hence male and female parts of God. I really don't know so I accept what God refers to Himself as.
For nonbelievers it does not matter as they do not believe, have respect, or do not care. Some Christians may have a problem with a male figure and not want a male God because of a bad experience with a male figure in their life. That is up to them. But for me I do believe and feel out of respect I will address him by what he requests. Just like if you know a person is a doctor, it is disrespectful to call them mister (if Male or Ms if female).