I really like this: "'Hell' is an Aramaic idiom for Mental Torment."-AWOON
I believe that nothing is predetermined/predestined. There is a basic blueprint for our lives based on heredity, ancestry, etc, some kind of latent potential. However, depending on where we grow up, how we are raised, the kinds of experiences we have, we become something for which God could never necessarily intend or forsee. The quality of life we create here on earth, the quality of love we have for those around us (or the lack of it) and the quality of our determination to be better, determines where we end up. Those who are engulfed in their own personal misery, intent on hurting others and themselves, with no desire to do or be better, end up in a kind of mental prison state after they die. I believe that they get to witness, and maybe spiritually experience the kind of pain they inflicted on others, which would be awful. I don't believe God intends some people to go to heaven, and some to hell before we are born, but we* determine it by how we lead our lives: living for the sake of others, or purely ourselves.