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Goodbye all

PoetPhilosopher

PoetPhilosopher

Veteran Member
Life is ironic. I said I'd never leave this site and even made light of it, but I'm really going through a lot right now, and I don't need more drama in my life. I'm very deeply offended by a couple of people on here now, not all, and need to begin the healing process. I think that healing process involves leaving. I'm not finger-pointing because you cannot blame a whole forum for the actions of a couple of people.

I probably should have expressed beforehand that I'd rather have enemies than friends who don't strive for high standards when it comes to their thoughtfulness of me. I don't have much time for anything less. But I didn't think this issue would pop up. And now I'm hurt.

I don't want to, but I just have to go. Who knows, maybe I don't live up to my own standards of others, I don't know, but I know what I must have in my life. I know my safe-zones and what's good for me.

Thank you all for the time spent responding to my posts/threads.
 
Laika

Laika

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
AT-AT said:
I said I'd never leave this site and even made light of it, but I'm really going through a lot right now, and I don't need more drama in my life.
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This place can be profoundly toxic at times, especially if you already have a lot on your plate. Older members have been there and I've tried leaving this place at least four times. It's really hard to strike a balance between the positive and negatives and sometimes it gets overwhelming so it's best to get some space. So don't feel too bad about it. You have to put yourself first and look after yourself. If you change your mind, you know where we are. Best of luck @AT-AT :)
 
C

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
AT-AT said:
I said I'd never leave this site and even made light of it, but I'm really going through a lot right now, and I don't need more drama in my life.
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One thing I've noticed about RF is that the posters who start threads about leaving are the ones who are usually back, quite soon. Often as not.
Hope things go well for you and look forward to your returning to the fold.
Tom
 
ChristineM

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
AT-AT said:
Life is ironic. I said I'd never leave this site and even made light of it, but I'm really going through a lot right now, and I don't need more drama in my life. I'm very deeply offended by a couple of people on here now, not all, and need to begin the healing process. I think that healing process involves leaving. I'm not finger-pointing because you cannot blame a whole forum for the actions of a couple of people.

I probably should have expressed beforehand that I'd rather have enemies than friends who don't strive for high standards when it comes to their thoughtfulness of me. I don't have much time for anything less. But I didn't think this issue would pop up. And now I'm hurt.

I don't want to, but I just have to go. Who knows, maybe I don't live up to my own standards of others, I don't know, but I know what I must have in my life. I know my safe-zones and what's good for me.

Thank you all for the time spent responding to my posts/threads.
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Gonna miss you, please return when you feel healed
 
Left Coast

Left Coast

This Is Water
Staff member
Premium Member
AT-AT said:
Life is ironic. I said I'd never leave this site and even made light of it, but I'm really going through a lot right now, and I don't need more drama in my life. I'm very deeply offended by a couple of people on here now, not all, and need to begin the healing process. I think that healing process involves leaving. I'm not finger-pointing because you cannot blame a whole forum for the actions of a couple of people.

I probably should have expressed beforehand that I'd rather have enemies than friends who don't strive for high standards when it comes to their thoughtfulness of me. I don't have much time for anything less. But I didn't think this issue would pop up. And now I'm hurt.

I don't want to, but I just have to go. Who knows, maybe I don't live up to my own standards of others, I don't know, but I know what I must have in my life. I know my safe-zones and what's good for me.

Thank you all for the time spent responding to my posts/threads.
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I'm sad to see you go. ☹ Don't write it off forever, just take a break and see if you're ready to come back after some time away. :heart::greenheart::blueheart::heartpulse::yellowheart:
 
Revoltingest

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
AT-AT said:
Life is ironic. I said I'd never leave this site and even made light of it, but I'm really going through a lot right now, and I don't need more drama in my life. I'm very deeply offended by a couple of people on here now, not all, and need to begin the healing process. I think that healing process involves leaving. I'm not finger-pointing because you cannot blame a whole forum for the actions of a couple of people.

I probably should have expressed beforehand that I'd rather have enemies than friends who don't strive for high standards when it comes to their thoughtfulness of me. I don't have much time for anything less. But I didn't think this issue would pop up. And now I'm hurt.

I don't want to, but I just have to go. Who knows, maybe I don't live up to my own standards of others, I don't know, but I know what I must have in my life. I know my safe-zones and what's good for me.

Thank you all for the time spent responding to my posts/threads.
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You need a vacation from this place.
Enjoy your hiatus.
Then return refreshed and ready for battle.

If ever I leave, it means I either died or got the boot.
 
icehorse

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
AT-AT said:
Life is ironic. I said I'd never leave this site and even made light of it, but I'm really going through a lot right now, and I don't need more drama in my life. I'm very deeply offended by a couple of people on here now, not all, and need to begin the healing process. I think that healing process involves leaving. I'm not finger-pointing because you cannot blame a whole forum for the actions of a couple of people.

I probably should have expressed beforehand that I'd rather have enemies than friends who don't strive for high standards when it comes to their thoughtfulness of me. I don't have much time for anything less. But I didn't think this issue would pop up. And now I'm hurt.

I don't want to, but I just have to go. Who knows, maybe I don't live up to my own standards of others, I don't know, but I know what I must have in my life. I know my safe-zones and what's good for me.

Thank you all for the time spent responding to my posts/threads.
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I hope you'll return
 
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