Mohammad Nur Syamsu
Well-Known Member
Love is a linguistic term that refers to a subjective feeling. If love was not an objective reality, at least to some extent, we would not be able to discuss it. Imho, though, love is far too vague to be proven part of objective reality, but the concept certainly does.
That's the mystery of it, we are able to discuss it while it is categorically subjective. For the exact same decision, the one may say it is hateful, the other may say it is loving, and then they each may change their opinion that the first says it is loving, and the other says it is hateful. This excludes your idea that it is partially objective.
And of course when you say it is "part" objective, then it is a slippery slope. Then you will only ever be talking about the objective parts, and not leave any room for choosing the conclusion at all. You have never paid any attention to different ways of how the opinion is chosen, which is really much of the meat of subjectivity.
You are dying to insert objectivity in there, but it is a logical impossiblity that what chooses can be a fact in any way whatsoever. So it means you must redefine love as a hybrid term, which in part refers to what chooses, the subjective part, and another part refers to how it is decided, the objective part.
There would be no logical error in doing that. One can define that love can only refer to agency of a decision, where the decision is made in a human brain. Then one would require the fact of the decision being made by a human being, and only then one can make the opinion whether or not the decision was loving.