SkepticThinker
Veteran Member
This is pretty much what I do. I try to flash my ring finger around a bit so they can maybe take the hint that I'm not available and I can avoid the whole having to turn them down part (oddly enough, this usually never works).I react the same as I do with my preferred gender(I'm only interested in the opposite). If showing no interest doesn't do it I tell them I'm not available. If they continue after that, well that's just as awkward if they are the opposite gender...
I don't enjoy getting hit on, in general, no matter which gender is involved. I really just don't like having much attention on me like that and it makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable. I guess I'm kind of a downer.