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Homosexuality and Homosexual Marriages: Why do Christians Care?

A Vestigial Mote

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Since I intend to use one post to try and prevent all the things that frustrate me about those who defend homosexuality (almost exclusively among all subject matters in this forum) it will take me a while.

You have me very interested to see how a single reply from you is supposed to accomplish the "[prevention]" of "all the things that frustrate [you] about those who defend homosexuality."

I'm putting a watch on this topic. This should be good...
 

Rise

Well-Known Member
I have clearly answered your (bad) examples.

It is in no way my fault that your presented examples fail to support your bold empty claim.

Please let me know if you ever find an example that actually supports your "innocent Christians being persecuted for being innocent" claims.

I have no doubts that it probably happens.
It's just that you have not presented an example of it.

I posed many questions in that post and you answered none of them.
 
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Rise

Well-Known Member
This is far LESS subjective than cherry-picking incidents and making judgements about the society in which they occurred.

You don't seem to understand how legal systems work - What you can prosecute one person for you can prosecute anyone else for.

If a pastor in Sweden can be prosecuted for publicly declaring his Biblical views on homosexuality, then anyone else in Sweden can.

So you can't claim this is just an isolated instance when the law is there, ready to be used whenever the government wants to persecute a Christian who is publicly bucking too loudly against the status quo.

The only thing that stopped them from jailing him was not Swedish law, but EU law.

It wasn't an anti-religious law. They simply don't grant additional protections to religions. They are subject to the same hate speech laws as anyone else.

What you, again, don't realize, is that "hate speech" can be defined in a way that prevents people from merely expressing their belief that the Bible says homosexuality is a sin.

No crime is being committed other than offending people who don't want to hear an opposing viewpoint.

Are you saying you are comfortable with thought-crime laws that silence peaceful dissenting speech?


And your version of reality is pretty damn subjective, by the way. He didnt teach a message of tolerance for sinners, thats for sure...

The only intolerant people in these situations are the "tolerant" leftists who cannot tolerate opposing Christian viewpoints, so they seek to use the law to silence Christians and prevent them from living according to their religious convictions.

Christians aren't the ones suing gay bakers demanding they write scriptures from the old testament about homosexuality on their cakes.
Christians aren't the ones passing laws which would jail people for saying they think homosexuality is perfectly ok.

If I thought for a moment that the crap he was talking is a true Christian message, I'd become anti-Christian overnight. Please allow me the comfort of thinking it's possible to teach about Christ without denouncing gays as possible animal rapists and pedophiles. But whatever...he's on the 'right team' so defend him if you must.

Your statements don't reflect the spirit or even really the content of what he wrote when put in context, and rather than base your opinion of what he said on a simple news article that quotes only a couple lines you should first read the sermon for yourself:
Pastor Åke Green's sermon on homosexuality

China? CHINA???
You're conflating China and Sweden in terms of freedom?
You didn't factually dispute my analogy, which remains true. You are using the power of the state to pick and choose what parts of the Bible you think are ok for pastors to teach.
What you ban has changed, but the principle is the same.

For what its worth, Cato puts them 141st in the world for freedom (of 159) and gives them 2.5/10 for religious freedom.

This is a good example of why quoting some group's opinion of what religious freedom looks like is a useless exercise as far as this thread is concerned.
Any country that believes they are in the position of being able to dictate what pastors can teach from the Bible is in some of the most dangerous territory possible as far as religious liberty goes. The freedom to teach the entire truth of the Bible to people is central to the mandate that Christians disciple the nations to obey Jesus.

It starts with one issue, but once the principle is established the door is opened for a cascade of future restrictions on whatever else the government decides they don't want the people to hear from the Bible.

As I said, they consider the mouth of the speaker and the ear of the listener to both have rights, and try to balance those.

The why doesn't really matter as far as this topic is concerned - China has a "why" behind their censorship too. They consider collective stability and state loyalty more important than an individual's right to speak about submission to the authority of Jesus, without which you have no true Gospel message.

But just because they have a reason doesn't mean their reason is a morally right one.

They're not shutting down Christianity.

Only the parts they find offensive.
And what they find offensive can always be added to.

Competing ideas? You can go to Sweden and argue against the government all you like.
The pastor just tried arguing against the government's sanction of homosexuality by using the Bible and they found him guilty, intending to jail him, for doing so.
They have laws against hate speech.
Define what separates hate speech from expressing an opinion.
Define it both according to your personal opinion, and according to Swedish law.

The problem with these kinds of laws is that they can easily be used to silence legitimate dissent on particular issues. So merely saying you think homosexuality is morally wrong becomes a crime in itself.

This was neither a directed instance of suppression of religion, nor of suppressing subversion.

The Swedish supreme court says you're wrong - They specifically declined to affirm the lower courts ruling of his guilt on the basis that it would be struck down by EU freedom of religion laws. The judge basically admitted that the Swedish law was being rightly applied in this instance, but that the Swedish law violated his freedom of religion and thus would not stand up in an EU court.

It is also not representative of any pattern.

Maybe you aren't aware of this being in Australia - but in the USA there is a concerted and intentional effort on the part of homosexual lobbying groups to silence and punish anyone who would exercise their religious liberty on this issue. Businesses are sued, boycotted, and there is a major push to indoctrinate society through the media and universities to accept that sexual preference and gender identity choices are equivalent to race - deserving the same kinds of legal protections. But the USA doesn't even have hate speech laws when it comes to issues like race.

So, although our constitution is too strong to allow their efforts at silencing dissenting viewpoints to be backed by the force of law; there is a major push on college campuses across the US to stifle, silence, or even ban any kind of speech that the left deems to be out of sync with their worldview. They will use whatever academic, media, or economic pressures they can to shut down politically offensive speech - usually through various means of intimidation. They are some of the most intolerant people you will ever meet in terms of accepting people with differing points of view. They are so convinced that they are the most tolerant people in the world that they cannot tolerate your intolerance of their viewpoints. It's a fundamentally dangerous mindset because they think they are so right that people who disagree with them need to be stopped from saying anything else to the contrary. The truth is, they are afraid of having to compete in the arena of open ideas and discourse, where they will lose. They don't want debate, they just want their opposition taken out of the picture by force. They have far more in common with revolutionary socialist dictatorships than they do with our founding fathers, in that regard.

So, yes, it is a part of a pattern because there are organized networks across the country who are actively pushing for ways to silence conservative opinions on LBGTQ issues. The same motivations exist in other western european countries, which is why you do end up prosecutors in Sweden who are motivated to use hate crimes laws to persecute a pastor for expressing an opinion publicly that is considered to be politically intolerable.

Instead, it was an instance of a pulpit not providing and additional protection under law to anyone else. I like that. People should be treated the same.
This isn't an issue about fair application of the law - It's about whether or not the law was morally right or even sound to begin with.
An unjust law applied equally across society doesn't make the law just, it only spreads the injustice to more people (I will point out that God is the one who defines what is just, just as God is the one who defines what is right. So there is such a thing as objectively unjust laws).

But the preacher believes it to be a literal truth, and made comment as to the nature of homosexuals which go beyond biblical teaching.
I welcome you to read his actual sermon and then prove through a sound exegesis of scripture why what he said is wrong.
 
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Rise

Well-Known Member
If your job "forces" you to commit what you call a sin, change jobs.

There is nothing inherent in a photography job that forces you to commit sin.
It's only when outside forces of the government try to dictate what you are forced to photograph that this job suddenly becomes linked with the potential for sin.

What you may not realize is that, despite your expectations of service, business owners actually have the right in this country to choose what jobs they want to take and have the right to refuse to serve anyone for whatever reason.
The only exception to that is a narrow subset of laws that provide protected status to certain things like race, which cannot be used as the basis for refusing jobs. But this has never been a problem because nobody in our country has ever had a serious legitimate religious objection to working with people of different skin colors.

The problem is when people decide they want to extend this protected status to things that people cannot morally allow themselves to participate in. You're now trampling on their freedom of religion.

You can't force the kosher observant jew to bake you a bacon filled cake and accuse him of discrimination against people who feel an uncontrollable compulsion to eat bacon in everything (even though you have since decided that compulsive bacon eating is now a legally protected status).
You can't force a kosher observant Jew to photograph your Torah burning party, capture your special moment of making a toast with pigs blood wine, or force them to create a beautiful memory book full of pictures he was forced to take of you engaging in sex with pigs.

Although these may seem like absurd examples; it serves to highlight the underlying absurdity of your position if taken to it's logical conclusion, and shows how serious it is when you start to trample on people's religious liberty.
Your theoretical rights to hump pigs and blaspheme God don't trump their right to live according to their religious convictions - You can't force them to be a part of celebrating your lifestyle choices when by doing so they would be violating some of their most deeply held and important religious convictions.
 
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A Vestigial Mote

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Maybe you aren't aware of this being in Australia - but in the USA there is a concerted and intentional effort on the part of homosexual lobbying groups to silence and punish anyone who would exercise their religious liberty on this issue. Businesses are sued, boycotted, and there is a major push to indoctrinate society through the media and universities to accept that sexual preference and gender identity choices are equivalent to race - deserving the same kinds of legal protections. But the USA doesn't even have hate speech laws when it comes to issues like race.

Aren't there concerted and intentional efforts made on the part of certain Christian groups to try and stamp out homosexuality? I mean... they literally try to "reform" people - and believe they're "intervening" on the homosexual's behalf to "save" them. What's good for the goose...

Besides... do you believe that any particular group of people should be able to come out and speak out against Christianity with the types of statements that many Christians employ when targeting homosexuality as an abominable sin? For instance, what if I were to rally a group of like-minded individuals and stand out in front of churches with this message:

"People should not be allowed to be Christian. According to my beliefs the doctrine of Christianity warps the minds of the individuals involved, to the point that they become mindless followers, willing to do the bidding of their supposed God, even if it means hurting others. Their views are infesting the political system, their fingers are entwined in the media, they are after your children to force them to discontinue their education in favor of burying their heads in The Bible. They are actively trying to destroy the freedoms of man by forcing them under the control of their old-world rules and regulations. Oh... and they are probably strongly linked to pedophiles and murderers - that's how bad their activities are."

And what if I get some people to listen to me? Even believe me? Would I not be doing some amount of damage with my speech? Getting people to hate one another? Honestly... I feel I should be allowed to do this - to say those things, and to remain free to do so... but do you?
 

The Emperor of Mankind

Currently the galaxy's spookiest paraplegic
You don't seem to understand how legal systems work - What you can prosecute one person for you can prosecute anyone else for.

If a pastor in Sweden can be prosecuted for publicly declaring his Biblical views on homosexuality, then anyone else in Sweden can.

So you can't claim this is just an isolated instance when the law is there, ready to be used whenever the government wants to persecute a Christian who is publicly bucking too loudly against the status quo.

The only thing that stopped them from jailing him was not Swedish law, but EU law.

I'm going to assume that there's actually more to this story than you're letting on. In fact there is. He wasn't just quoting from the Bible; he had prepared a whole presentation going on about how homosexuality is evil and is "the slavery of sexual immorality". Christians have a tendency to leave things out when they're trying to stoke the persecution complex.
There's the fact that Sweden's law outlawing homophobia is designed to protect LGBTs from intimidation or agitation. That last part isn't necessarily 'agitation' in the sense that they feel agitated; it's more to do with agitating against gays e.g. calling homosexuality 'evil'.
There's also the fact that the charge was overturned. So just as the charge could be applied against a Christian in similar circumstances in future, that same charge could be dropped in similar circumstances.


What you, again, don't realize, is that "hate speech" can be defined in a way that prevents people from merely expressing their belief that the Bible says homosexuality is a sin.

And maybe if Biblical preaching falls afoul of such laws then maybe, just maybe you might want to stop and examine what it is you're advocating. You know the whole mote & beam in the eye sort of thing.


No crime is being committed other than offending people who don't want to hear an opposing viewpoint.

He wasn't just doing that though - he was calling homosexuality evil and a form of slavery. He was agitating against gay people.


Are you saying you are comfortable with thought-crime laws that silence peaceful dissenting speech?

If Christians suddenly became concerned that, Muslims or atheists were calling Christianity evil and slavery then they'd probably be agitating for similar laws. Or maybe they wouldn't because they'd welcome the chance to indulge in spiritual masochism in the name of 'enduring persecution'.


The only intolerant people in these situations are the "tolerant" leftists who cannot tolerate opposing Christian viewpoints, so they seek to use the law to silence Christians and prevent them from living according to their religious convictions.

The only intolerant people here are the ones who can't stomach the notion that people don't have to live according to their religious convictions; that people who don't fit their sacred book's specific narrative can get married horrifies these people - even though they come from a religion which didn't invent marriage. Marriage as a social concept pre-dates Christianity by millennia - you don't have the right to define it for everyone else.


Christians aren't the ones suing gay bakers demanding they write scriptures from the old testament about homosexuality on their cakes.
Christians aren't the ones passing laws which would jail people for saying they think homosexuality is perfectly ok.

But Christians are the ones who believe they should be allowed to operate above the law of the land. Christians are the ones who believe they should be allowed to discriminate when providing goods & services to the public such as wedding cakes. Or marriage licenses. Christians are the ones who misrepresent arguments in order to make it seem like they're being persecuted - a county clerk or a baker making a cake for a gay couple isn't being made to endorse a same-sex marriage any more than a postman who delivers invitations for the wedding is being asked to endorse the marriage.

Christians are not above the law of the land; your beliefs are not that important. Get over yourselves.


Your statements don't reflect the spirit or even really the content of what he wrote when put in context, and rather than base your opinion of what he said on a simple news article that quotes only a couple lines you should first read the sermon for yourself:
Pastor Åke Green's sermon on homosexuality

I'm not really sure the 'you're taking what he said out of context' argument helps here since the sermon actually reinforces the "couple of lines" quoted.


You didn't factually dispute my analogy, which remains true. You are using the power of the state to pick and choose what parts of the Bible you think are ok for pastors to teach.
What you ban has changed, but the principle is the same.

Unless I'm mistaken, the state already does this. You're not allowed to use the Bible (or any holy book) to incite violence or to call for someone to be killed either. Religious freedom does not mean the right to discriminate.



This is a good example of why quoting some group's opinion of what religious freedom looks like is a useless exercise as far as this thread is concerned.
Any country that believes they are in the position of being able to dictate what pastors can teach from the Bible is in some of the most dangerous territory possible as far as religious liberty goes. The freedom to teach the entire truth of the Bible to people is central to the mandate that Christians disciple the nations to obey Jesus.

The one thing more dangerous than this is when a country where pastors/mullahs/whatever are the ones influencing or even outright setting laws. If you want LGBTs to be subject to laws influenced or derived from Christian doctrine then you're advocating theocracy. And Christians aren't being denied their right to preach from the Bible - what they're being told is that they don't have the right to use religious beliefs as a vehicle for discriminating against others and denying them their own rights. Seriously, Christians in the West are not being persecuted when they're told they can't force their beliefs on others.


It starts with one issue, but once the principle is established the door is opened for a cascade of future restrictions on whatever else the government decides they don't want the people to hear from the Bible.

So why aren't you complaining that people aren't allowed to use the Bible to agitate for killing gays or for human trafficking (i.e. selling family members into slavery)?


The why doesn't really matter as far as this topic is concerned - China has a "why" behind their censorship too. They consider collective stability and state loyalty more important than an individual's right to speak about submission to the authority of Jesus, without which you have no true Gospel message.

Of course not because when we get down to the 'why' your position falls apart. Heaven forbid we should actually take time to analyse a) your argument and b) the specific claims you're making and realise they're fallacious.


But just because they have a reason doesn't mean their reason is a morally right one.

And just because a person has a holy book/religious belief doesn't mean their justification for discriminating against LGBTs is morally right.


Only the parts they find offensive.

So you're admitting here it's only parts of Christianity that are being scrutinised here and not the whole thing. It's not persecution then.


And what they find offensive can always be added to.

Oooh, that sounds ominous!


The pastor just tried arguing against the government's sanction of homosexuality by using the Bible and they found him guilty, intending to jail him, for doing so.

The pastor wasn't just arguing against homosexuality, he was agitating against it using grossly incendiary language.


The problem with these kinds of laws is that they can easily be used to silence legitimate dissent on particular issues.

True but fortunately in this case that did not happen.


So merely saying you think homosexuality is morally wrong becomes a crime in itself.

Nope, agitating against it and calling it derogatory things like 'sexual slavery' is morally wrong. If a senior politician said this about Christianity I'm sure you'd be the first to complain.


Maybe you aren't aware of this being in Australia - but in the USA there is a concerted and intentional effort on the part of homosexual lobbying groups to silence and punish anyone who would exercise their religious liberty on this issue. Businesses are sued, boycotted, and there is a major push to indoctrinate society through the media and universities to accept that sexual preference and gender identity choices are equivalent to race - deserving the same kinds of legal protections. But the USA doesn't even have hate speech laws when it comes to issues like race.

So when Christians boycott businesses like Target over the fact they refuse to give in to transphobic prejudice it's okay but when Christians are punished for wrongly trying to use religious freedom as license to operate above the law of the land that's persecution? Don't be absurd. There are few countries in the world where Christians are more privileged than in the USA. You have myriad lawmakers who believe Christian religious freedom means being above the law; you have more than a few Christians who believe that religious freedom as defined in the First Amendment should apply only to Christians; you have the fact that even though the SCOTUS has ruled that denying gay couples the right to marry is unconstitutional, Christian lobbyists are drawing up a raft of pro-discrimination 'religious freedom' laws which protect Christian business owners from prosecution for breaking the law.

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The Emperor of Mankind

Currently the galaxy's spookiest paraplegic
...from above

So, although our constitution is too strong to allow their efforts at silencing dissenting viewpoints to be backed by the force of law; there is a major push on college campuses across the US to stifle, silence, or even ban any kind of speech that the left deems to be out of sync with their worldview. They will use whatever academic, media, or economic pressures they can to shut down politically offensive speech - usually through various means of intimidation.

As opposed to Christians who use networks like Fox, any one of hundreds of televangelist broadcasts, and numerous lobby groups to force their beliefs on others - which is completely different, of course :rolleyes:


They are some of the most intolerant people you will ever meet in terms of accepting people with differing points of view. They are so convinced that they are the most tolerant people in the world that they cannot tolerate your intolerance of their viewpoints. It's a fundamentally dangerous mindset because they think they are so right that people who disagree with them need to be stopped from saying anything else to the contrary.

Nah, the most intolerant people in America are the Christians who think it's fine to treat people without basic dignity because they're LGBT - hence all the transphobic bathroom laws (seriously, I thought the Republicans were a 'small government' party?), the right to fire people just for being gay etc


The truth is, they are afraid of having to compete in the arena of open ideas and discourse, where they will lose.

Equal rights advocates have been competing in the area of open ideas and discourse for decades and have been winning recently.


They don't want debate, they just want their opposition taken out of the picture by force. They have far more in common with revolutionary socialist dictatorships than they do with our founding fathers, in that regard.

I'm sorry to stop you in the midst of your conservative, ammosexual masturbation rant but this is utter pish. America's Founding Fathers built a legal wall separating Church & State because they saw how much suffering religious governance caused - especially to the 'other'. They deliberately designed the early Constitution so that there could be no religious elite doling out laws from the pulpit. This is something the allegedly patriotic Religious Right have been trying to tear down for decades.


So, yes, it is a part of a pattern because there are organized networks across the country who are actively pushing for ways to silence conservative opinions on LBGTQ issues. The same motivations exist in other western european countries, which is why you do end up prosecutors in Sweden who are motivated to use hate crimes laws to persecute a pastor for expressing an opinion publicly that is considered to be politically intolerable.

What a load. The Swedish authorities wanted to nip in the bud the sort of rhetoric that can lead to people being targeted in the street and even killed if left unchallenged.


This isn't an issue about fair application of the law

Yes it is. Some Christians want to be above the law and are willing to use their religious freedom to do so.


An unjust law applied equally across society doesn't make the law just, it only spreads the injustice to more people (I will point out that God is the one who defines what is just, just as God is the one who defines what is right. So there is such a thing as objectively unjust laws).

This bold empty claim is a non-starter - your claims about God hold no weight outside of the echo chamber it was made in. God does not make laws in the assemblies of humankind, people do.
 
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Rise

Well-Known Member
Aren't there concerted and intentional efforts made on the part of certain Christian groups to try and stamp out homosexuality? I mean... they literally try to "reform" people - and believe they're "intervening" on the homosexual's behalf to "save" them. What's good for the goose...

You're not looking at the fundamental differences of the two scenarios you describe. It's a logical error on your part.

You're talking about voluntary counseling services Christians offer to people who want to be free from their homosexual attractions. Nobody is forcing people to be involved in that. Nobody is forcing, through the power of the law, homosexual caterers to serve at christian conferences which talk about homosexuality being a bad thing. Nobody is using the law to force homosexual bakers to make cakes which say "homosexuality is an abomination" on them. They have the freedom to refuse to be a part of endorsing other people's religious views through their services, even though they don't have a religious objection to doing so. In light of that, it is even more hypocritical that Christians don't have the right to refuse services to endorse or participate in things that are a severe violation of their religious convictions.

There have been experiments conducted to highlight this rank hypocrisy:
Christian Man Asks Thirteen Gay Bakeries To Bake Him Pro-Traditional Marriage Cake, And Is Denied Service By All Of Them (WATCH THE SHOCKING VIDEO)

A Christian gets sued for politely refusing to make a cake that says "support gay marriage", and people call it hate; but 13 homosexual bakers have no consequences for refusing to make cakes that say "gay marriage is wrong", even though they refuse in the most offensive and hateful ways while attacking Christians as a people group.


Besides... do you believe that any particular group of people should be able to come out and speak out against Christianity with the types of statements that many Christians employ when targeting homosexuality as an abominable sin? For instance, what if I were to rally a group of like-minded individuals and stand out in front of churches with this message:

"People should not be allowed to be Christian. According to my beliefs the doctrine of Christianity warps the minds of the individuals involved, to the point that they become mindless followers, willing to do the bidding of their supposed God, even if it means hurting others. Their views are infesting the political system, their fingers are entwined in the media, they are after your children to force them to discontinue their education in favor of burying their heads in The Bible. They are actively trying to destroy the freedoms of man by forcing them under the control of their old-world rules and regulations. Oh... and they are probably strongly linked to pedophiles and murderers - that's how bad their activities are."

I've got news for you: people already say that. Pretty much word for word. They say it in universities, through media, and when you talk to individuals who have certain political leanings you'd find they actually believe wholeheartedly everything you just typed. I don't think you'll have any trouble finding many people on this very forum who believe what you just typed, and have already posted things to that effect.

Am I going to try to pass laws that classify what you just said as hate speech? No.
Am I going to force people who believe that, by law, to be involved in Christian activities or events? No.
It's legally protected speech, and I don't advocate using the law to try to shut down their ability to say that; as long as they aren't crossing certain lines like trying to stir up violence against Christians.

In fact, what you typed is quite mild compared with some of the hateful things people really say about Christians in the US.

And what if I get some people to listen to me? Even believe me? Would I not be doing some amount of damage with my speech? Getting people to hate one another? Honestly... I feel I should be allowed to do this - to say those things, and to remain free to do so... but do you?

It's already happening. The damage is being done as people believe those lies through media and university indoctrination, which then causes them to reject the truth of God and reorder society based on harmful lies about what society should look like.

In fact, that kind of speech I see coming out of universities and media sources directed at Christians is often genuinely hateful, designed to turn people against them and make them despise Christians as the source of problems and the barrier to "progress".

In contrast, I don't see the average church saying anything hateful about homosexuals. It is a message of truth tempered by an understanding that we are to love them as we would love anyone else. But love also tells the truth. The problem with our society is your have groups of people who want to classify simply telling the truth as hate speech, and ban it for no other reason than it offends them to hear the truth spoken.

So I reject your assertion that what the average church is teaching about homosexuality could in any way be misconstrued as "getting christians to hate homosexuals". Nothing of the sort happens in the overwhelming majority of mature and responsible churches. In contrast, I see far more mainstream acceptance for openly disdaining Christians as a people group in the education/media systems, a kind of contempt of them as people that is not only accepted but even encouraged.

Christians in the US don't fight back against lies about them with legal restrictions on what people can say, or forcing people to go to church - They fight back by telling the truth and winning people over to their side.

That's how our American system was designed to work. You're subverting the system when you introduce so-called "hate speech" laws that are really just a way of shutting down opposing viewpoints so that you don't have to defend your worldview against challenges. You're not winning the debate, you're simply removing the ability for people to have a debate - That's what totalitarian/authoritarian states do. China. Communist Russia. Nazi Germany. Revolutionary France. It's control. It doesn't care about gaining the consent of the governed by convincing them of the merits of their viewpoints. And we have seen, historically, that the extent to which governments stifle legitimate opposing viewpoints is the extent to which they are in the greatest danger of doing great harm. That is why it is so dangerous to see the seeds of this growing and bearing fruit in Europe and Canada, with attempts to bring it to the USA as well.
 
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SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
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There is nothing inherent in a photography job that forces you to commit sin.
It's only when outside forces of the government try to dictate what you are forced to photograph that this job suddenly becomes linked with the potential for sin.

What you may not realize is that, despite your expectations of service, business owners actually have the right in this country to choose what jobs they want to take and have the right to refuse to serve anyone for whatever reason.
The only exception to that is a narrow subset of laws that provide protected status to certain things like race, which cannot be used as the basis for refusing jobs. But this has never been a problem because nobody in our country has ever had a serious legitimate religious objection to working with people of different skin colors.

The problem is when people decide they want to extend this protected status to things that people cannot morally allow themselves to participate in. You're now trampling on their freedom of religion.

You can't force the kosher observant jew to bake you a bacon filled cake and accuse him of discrimination against people who feel an uncontrollable compulsion to eat bacon in everything (even though you have since decided that compulsive bacon eating is now a legally protected status).
You can't force a kosher observant Jew to photograph your Torah burning party, capture your special moment of making a toast with pigs blood wine, or force them to create a beautiful memory book full of pictures he was forced to take of you engaging in sex with pigs.

Although these may seem like absurd examples; it serves to highlight the underlying absurdity of your position if taken to it's logical conclusion, and shows how serious it is when you start to trample on people's religious liberty.
Your theoretical rights to hump pigs and blaspheme God don't trump their right to live according to their religious convictions - You can't force them to be a part of celebrating your lifestyle choices when by doing so they would be violating some of their most deeply held and important religious convictions.

Aww, boo hoo you have to treat everybody the same. Spare me you tantrum. It's pathetic and tired and so unChrist like.
 

A Vestigial Mote

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You're not looking at the fundamental differences of the two scenarios you describe. It's a logical error on your part.

You're talking about voluntary counseling services Christians offer to people who want to be free from their homosexual attractions.

Blatant lie, and you know it. Most times the pressure from Christians is so great that they may as well be forcing the issue - I have seen and heard about this many, many times. And if the people involved were, instead, accepted with open arms do you think that they would go through your "voluntary" processes? Give me a break. Perhaps your problem is that you're looking at the issue TOO logically - and you've blinded yourself to the emotional truths. Homosexuals are bullied by Christians - they FEEL it... they TELL YOU SO... and then you say "but we love you". Christians who practice this sort of "love" are partially insane in my book. And they are definitely not the sorts of people I want to take advice from on how society should behave toward ANYTHING.


First problem is labeling a place of business a "Gay bakery" or a "Christian bakery". You're "A bakery" - stop being an idiot. This applies to both sides. And I, personally, don't think an objection should be raised on either side about any stupid thing any stupid person wants to put on their stupid cake. Go be a special snowflake butt-hat for all I care. Yay for you you have a cake that says "Gay marriage is great", or "Christians don't like gays" - who cares? Get over yourself.

I've got news for you: people already say that. Pretty much word for word. They say it in universities, through media, and when you talk to individuals who have certain political leanings you'd find they actually believe wholeheartedly everything you just typed. I don't think you'll have any trouble finding many people on this very forum who believe what you just typed, and have already posted things to that effect.

Am I going to try to pass laws that classify what you just said as hate speech? No.
Good, then we're in agreement on that point - but what I was trying to get you to realize is that perhaps it gets to a point where you are cut deeply enough that you do believe you need to take some sort of action. What can you do? Go beat the people up who are trying to damage you emotionally? No. So if it gets bad enough someone is going to seek legal recourse. You HAVE TO expect that when you're spouting off all the time that certain people are sub-human (let's face it - THAT IS THE MESSAGE - don't lie to yourself). Don't sit there shocked when someone gets fed up with you ranting and raving all day about them, personally, publically. I'll just say it - to feign shock when you're being such an A-hole is ridiculous. It's exactly like the thief who is shocked when the person whose house he's trying to rob shoots him. What the hell did you expect? I mean come on...


It's already happening. The damage is being done as people believe those lies through media and university indoctrination, which then causes them to reject the truth of God and reorder society based on harmful lies about what society should look like.
I understand you think that Christianity contains no "harmful lies about what society should look like", which is what gives you the ability to plausibly state the above. Your mind is trained to filter out those things so that your version of Christianity, in your mind - the ONLY place that that version of Christianity exists - is "pure". I feel otherwise. SO this is the pot calling the kettle black from my perspective.

In contrast, I don't see the average church saying anything hateful about homosexuals. It is a message of truth tempered by an understanding that we are to love them as we would love anyone else. But love also tells the truth. The problem with our society is your have groups of people who want to classify simply telling the truth as hate speech, and ban it for no other reason than it offends them to hear the truth spoken.

See, this tells me you're not getting my point. My whole message is that Christians and homosexuals are THE SAME in terms of their need to deliver on these issues. You feel you need to state "the truth" (as you see it, and you make-believe that "God" sees it), and homosexuals feel they need to "be themselves". Both groups go after this, however here is the main difference: There is only the butting of heads because CHRISTIANS STARTED THE FIGHT. You say you already know that people bash your religion left and right, and I am sure it weighs on you somewhat, otherwise you wouldn't be so keen to describe it and bring it up as a counter to the weight that Christian words bear upon homosexuals. Do you AGREE with the people who bash your religion? Does it make you upset that they have no respect for your beliefs? Of course it does. So what you don't handle it the same way that some homosexuals handle the insult and injury they feel from Christians being "loving and truthful" (what a joke). So what you don't seek legal recourse (by the way - what do you call trying to lobby against gay marriage? I'm curious). Not everyone fights in the same way. But everyone DOES take emotional damage in pretty much the same way(s). I'm not gay or Christian - and maybe because of that it is so so SO easy to see how Christians are the sticking point here. They are the obstinate ones. They are the ones being so stupidly insensitive to people. They are the ones NOT CARING, and pushing forward, blindly, "good" book in tow. And I even have proof!! Here it is:

There are some homosexual individuals who WANT TO BE CHRISTIAN, and WANT TO FEEL ACCEPTED. Not all of them, obviously, but some. And most of those feel they can't publicly be Christian - feel that they won't be accepted. There is no corollary for Christians wanting to be gay but feeling that they won't be accepted by the gay community. As a matter of fact... huh... what do you know? There are instead Christians who WANT TO BE GAY BUT DON'T "COME OUT" FOR FEAR OF WHAT THEIR FELLOW CHRISTIANS WILL THINK/SAY/REACT. You know this is true.

That's how our American system was designed to work. You're subverting the system when you introduce so-called "hate speech" laws that are really just a way of shutting down opposing viewpoints so that you don't have to defend your worldview against challenges.
I agree with all of this. But honestly... when you JUST KEEP PUSHING, and you keep rallying against something that these people HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO PARTICIPATE IN, and you keep trying to pressure them, emotionally, to change, and you keep being so stubborn and won't leave things well enough alone - what options have you left them? As I said, it's asinine to have expected any other outcome.
 
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McBell

Unbound
I posed many questions in that post and you answered none of them.
I prefer to deal with the reality of the situations you present.

The reality is that none of them have supported your claim of "innocence".

Don't get me wrong.
I understand that sometimes you have to buck the system to illicit change.
But the bucking of the system is not "innocence".
 

McBell

Unbound
Crying for joy that someone is out there fighting for the right.
People have every right to be *** holes.
People have every right to be bigots, racists, sexists, etc.
People even have the right to whine when being called out on it.

Some of the actions resulting from the above listed rights do in fact violate the rights of others.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
You can't force the kosher observant jew to bake you a bacon filled cake and accuse him of discrimination against people who feel an uncontrollable compulsion to eat bacon in everything (even though you have since decided that compulsive bacon eating is now a legally protected status).
The Kosher observant Jew probably wouldn't be serving pork anything to begin with, warding that off as a possibility.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
The only exception to that is a narrow subset of laws that provide protected status to certain things like race, which cannot be used as the basis for refusing jobs. But this has never been a problem because nobody in our country has ever had a serious legitimate religious objection to working with people of different skin colors.
Yes, they have. They also had--and still have--them about women. Doesn't matter. A business cannot discriminate.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
@A Vestigial Mote @Shadow Wolf @Jainarayan @SkepticThinker @Carlita @omega2xx @columbus @Saint Frankenstein @Acim @jonathan180iq @Evangelicalhumanist @sayak83 and everyone else on the wrong side of this debate. Before I launch into this, Merry Christmas.

I was completely over whelmed by 50+ responses over only 3 days in this thread alone. So I promised to go back and make this post because only after posting this can I reduce the absurdities I have to address in the amount of time I actually have. What follows is primarily what arguments will fail and why, concerning any defense of homosexuality you have all engaged in. Not everyone of you have made everyone of the following mistakes but you have all made at least one, most over and over. So the following are examples of arguments that you should not make if you wish to debate me. If you run afoul of any of the following mistakes I will not explain the mistake again as I have been doing over and over, I will merely refer you to this post and the specific mistake you made.

1. The first mistake is the most common. My two simplistic arguments have been misrepresented by those defending homosexual behavior over and over and over. So I will restate them again with some additional clarification.

A. The massive cost of homosexual behavior is not justified by any benefit of the behavior.
B. The costs of heterosexual behavior is justified by the benefits of the behavior.


I am referring to homosexual sexual acts, not the orientation. I believe both to be wrong but the orientation requires another argument altogether and is not the subject of those two arguments. I can post all kinds of statistics but the following is all I require until it can be countered.
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Gay and Bisexual Men | HIV by Group | HIV/AIDS | CDC
U.S. Statistics


2. Do not claim that some other behavior is wrong or right, and insist that it has any effect on the issue of homosexual sexual behavior. You cannot get your client off the hook by condemning another, since I am not attacking a person, but judging a type of behavior it's self. All behaviors are justifiable or unjustifiable without regard to another behavior. Even similar behaviors do not all stand or fall together.

3. Do not use an argument that would result in condemning all behaviors unless you will except that conclusion. Do not say that since in vitro fertilization exists that no sexual behavior is justified unless you agree that that just means homosexual sex has another reason to be considered unjustifiable. Unless you want to engage in a meaningless nihilistic scorched earth campaign this is a waste of time.

4. Do not subdivide the category of homosexual behavior by arbitrary means and into cherry picked sub categories. I can not debate concerning left handed, red haired, taller than six foot, or lighter than 200lbs, etc.... homosexuals. That is to needlessly over complicate the discussion to make it impossible to actually have it. It also would only separate the horrifically unjustifiable from the mildly unjustified groups.

5. I made secular arguments above so do not mention my faith unless you want a completely new debate about properly basic beliefs. Also never ever even hint that I do not like or want to do anything to homosexuals just because I do not agree with you. If you do our conversation will quickly end.

6. Do not say that unless I have a solution I can not claim something is a problem. I do not have to know how to fix my car to be certain it is not working.

7. Do not say that heterosexuality causes more new aids cases (for example) in total, so that new aids cases caused by homosexuality is justified or excusable. For one I do not even think that is true but more importantly because 96% of the population is heterosexual and merely the orientation has no causal relationship with aids cases. It may be true that because most of us are right handed that right handed people cause more new aids cases than left handed people but handedness does not stand in a causal relationship with aids, it is incidental. Do not engage in an evidenced based discussion if you have no experience in the use of statistical data.

8. Those who defend a position because they are emotionally invested in what they prefer do not do well in debates. A debate occurs on the common ground of objective evidence. If I am supplying evidence and another is fighting with their emotions then my facts will not persuade the emotionally invested. No other topic in my experience can touch the emotional motivation of those who defend homosexuality. That explains the 50+ responses I received in 3 days in this thread.

9. Do not take an entire list of statistical data I post, merely make a complaint about one possible source and write off the entire list. I posted approximately 10 sets of data in one post, I had two people mention they did not accept one possible source and then never even addressed the remaining 90% of the data I supplied. I was not shown that the person they complained about was even the source to begin with, or why even if he was the source his data was wrong.

10. Do not keep asking me to go back and repost over and over what I posted days ago. I do not have the time to do it nor the responsibility. Do not respond to the vast posts I make with mere quips or commentary. I expect that those who engage me be sincere and that they will devote more than what the average troll would on their response.

11. Do not make a reference to or play the victim card. However some arbitrary group of homosexuals was treated, thought they were treated, or lied about how they were treated has no relevance to whether homosexual behavior can be rationally justified or not. Many in the modern liberal movement respond to anyone who disagrees with them by yelling racism, sexism, homophobia, Islamophobia, that they be fired, they need a safe space, their triggered, micro aggression, check your privilege, and if all that fails they simply scream at the top of their lungs without regard to whether any of those things are applicable, useful, or even true. However it will not work with me. In a choice between someone's feelings and truth, your feelings are going to lose every time as far as I am concerned. I will answer to God for how loyal I was to the truth as best as I could determine it, not anyone else's feelings being hurt by that truth. I am never intentionally offensive but will not put up with arguments that violate the things listed above for too long.

12. Do not argue by proxy. Do not fail to offer your own argument and instead refer to other poster's arguments. Do not appeal to some real or wished for solidarity with others as if doing so was an argument its self.

13. Do not attempt to debate me about the points above. I have beaten each one to a pulp in many threads which can be searched. At this point I am done with exhaustively showing over and over all the reasons the mistakes above are mistakes. I only mentioned them again here to know I drew a clear line in the sand to reduce my work load from here on in.

Anyway enough of the bad stuff. Let me get to what should be done.

1. Make arguments that account for the entire spectrum of data and evidence.
2. Do not get emotional when I disagree with you.
3. I am here not to have anyone agree with me, I spend little time singing Kumbaya with my fellow Christian posters.
4. I am here to make arguments I think are based on evidence and obey academic standards of science, history, philosophy, moral theory, and theology (where applicable).
5. I want most a meaningful challenge to my arguments so that I can withdraw bad arguments, perfect good arguments, subject great arguments to effective counter arguments to see if they withstand them, and to be intellectually engaged.
6. I was even satisfied with a poster who stated that he knew my arguments were valid but he wanted to punch me in the face anyway. If you can't do anything else here, at least be funny.

I am not asking for much but so far the homosexual threads (more than any other) have failed on all counts.

So if you want a debate then don't make the mistakes above and try to accomplish at least one of the goals I listed. Merry Christmas and good luck to everyone.
 
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