That is, care if
others engage in them?
I know homosexuality has pretty much run its course here on RF, but I can't remember this specific point having been addressed, and just to be clear I'll restate the question.
Why do Christians care that people of the same gender engage in sex, and why do they care that they marry each other. Even caring to the point of voicing their objections, and to the point of protesting?
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It was put honestly by my former friend and Roman Catholic that [she] wished that America would go back to conservative values (women in long dresses type of thing). She also wishes the U.S. government were set up with Christian values as that's how she feels everyone would be happy is through Christ.
My other friend rationalize it as we, the LGBT...community have preferences rather than sexual orientations just as straight people and all humans do. Since she considers it a preference or something you choose, and both friends consider it a sin akin to murder (my other friend said gay marriage
is like murder-said it out of her mouth on the phone with me), why would they want to have two people who choose to murderer people join together in marriage to murder some more and call it a holy matrimony?
Based on how they define the LGBT community, it makes sense. Morally and all the above, it does not.
Here is the reasoning behind both their arguments (the latter would not see it in the eyes of the Church; same context)
2358 The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God's will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord's Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.
2359 Homosexual persons are called to chastity. By the virtues of self-mastery that teach them inner freedom, at times by the support of disinterested friendship, by prayer and sacramental grace, they can and should gradually and resolutely approach Christian perfection.
Unfortunately, according to the Church with whom I trusted, I have no inner freedom or anything of that nature while I still have this "disordered passion" inside me. They have a program that helps LGBT Catholics outside of their tendencies.
Based on their logic, that's why they care. Outside of that, I dont know.