Pleased there was something marginally positive about the whole experience. I do recall TB saying he ended up getting banned from every forum he participated in and I understand that's what happened with RF too. I haven't seen LH post here for the last month and know he had some health issues. Both LH and I certainly appreciated the opportunity to consider the nature of reality from differing perspectives. IT is still around.
In my personal experience, it's been very much an individual thing. My atheist father was in the midst of a liberal Christian community, but highly respected, as he would help out anyone. OTOH, I've seen people from almost any faith be total selfish morons, to put it mildly. So, for me, it's about the individual. The Bahai on here vary widely in respect shown towards others, or listening skills. It varies from downright rude to respectful. Same for my experience with JWs. But you're free to make sweeping generalisations, if that's been YOUR experience.What I have found is that it is just in the way the Baha'i deliver the message, enthusiastically as many tend to do. On the ground where actions become the words all speak, we all work together.
That is what I have found with many Faiths. The Jehovah Witnesses will always help those in need, but a stronger argument of Faith you will not find and I always welcome their commitment to faith.
For all of us life is a learning platform and each has to consider where they head in life, though many do not get that chance in this world where displacement has become large scale.
Peace for all.
That Bahai enthusiasm you speak of is just proselytising, which I abhor, as you found out, and is against the forum rules, thank goodness.