CG Didymus
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This ties in with what I was trying to say earlier. Too many times people aren't really listening to the other person's point of view, because they thinking ahead on how they are going to prove their point... like a chess game. The other person's words aren't all that important, because the they already know they aren't, and don't want to change, their views. The whole purpose of the conversation is to change the other person's point of view....I say you don't read everything I say because reading, taking interest in what I say, and wanting to learn my point of view all goes together. If you don't have interest in the meaning and context in what I say especially when it conflicts with your own views, how will you learn other people's perspectives...
I think it can be very subtle, but I think it's still their... on both sides. Are we really thinking, "Gee, I need to know more about this great religion of theirs." I'm talking about a truly seeking attitude. We are more of a, "What? No, that's not what I think, and this is how I believe you're wrong..." kind of attitude. But that's all right. They throw out statements that are up for debate, and we respond.
But them, what is the purpose behind the questions and statements. Is it to get to know us and what we believe? Or, to show us, lovingly and respectfully, that we are wrong, and they are right?
Of course this happens all the time, especially with Christian groups. Many have a plan and rehearse it on how to get people to convert. Are Baha'is any different? Do they really want to know you and respect you as you are, or do they want to change you [to them, it's for the better], and get you to see their truth as the real truth.
When I was first learning of the Baha'i Faith, they'd often say, "We don't make Baha'is... We find them." Meaning they'd find people that already believed in peace, love, unity, that all people are one, etc. Who's not gong to believe things like that aren't true? The next step would be to convince them that Baha'u'llah is the "promised" one of all religions. That is the big problem... as we can see here. I got some more stuff, but I'm gong to do it off a different one of your posts. See you in a minute or two.