I've dealt extensively with both banks & government....& one government owned bank.
Banks work hard to serve me, lend me money, store my money, & are friendly with me.
At best, government doesn't care about me, but otherwise it's hostile. It's tried to draft me into a stupid & deadly war, it takes my money (lots), it displays great incompetence when interfering with my business, it's officious, authoritarian, & ungrateful. This extended to the one bank which gave me a bad experience....government (Brit) owned RBS.
I don't think banks or government truly care about individuals. Whether they're "friendly" or not is meaningless, since private sector "friendliness" is always false and insincere (it gets even more disingenuous the higher you go).
I agree with you about war and the draft, although I don't consider the business community to be innocent bystanders when it comes to formulating government policy.
As far as how much money they take, my experience is that the private sector takes far more of it. Taxes amount to little more than the equivalent of a small utility bill. I spend more on food in a week than I do on taxes in a month. Taxes are next to nothing. It's the private sector taking most of my money, not the government. Even with the allegedly "socialist" Obamacare, I'm paying to a private sector insurance company (3x more than I pay in taxes), not the government. It's the private sector which is full of gougers and takers, not the government.
As a matter of fact, in terms of friendliness, when I got into trouble with the IRS (for not filing a few years), they were far more friendly and decent about it than I've ever seen with any bank. They could have socked it to me if they wanted to, but they were actually pretty nice about it and waived many of the penalties and late fees, much to my surprise. The person I was dealing with said that he prefers a "win-win" outcome - something that no bank would ever consider.
Generally, but it's not fully deterministic...more probabilistic.
Still, it's the system we have, for better or worse. Part of the problem is that many people base their voting choices on "looks" or some other superficial or irrelevant factor.
On the other hand, a government powerful enuf to prevent free market capitalism poses great risks if left unchecked.
By definition, all governments are powerful enough to do that. Whether or not they actually do it is a matter of politics.
You might think that I'm naive about government, but if you seriously believe that the mere existence of free market capitalism can mitigate the risk of an all-powerful government or the consequences of having such a government, I consider that to be even more naive. Free-market capitalism didn't prevent the atrocities of Pinochet, as capitalists aided and abetted those activities (and that's just one example out of many I could cite).
Too many people think small.....that banks are big & predatory.
In many cases, they are.
People think of themselves as victims, & aren't proactive in facing problems. They want government to fix things for them instead of taking personal responsibility. But they often don' t even know what to do. But government's hobbling of banking won't fix this.
I agree in that regulations on banking won't be enough to fix the problems that we're facing. Banking is just one part of the equation.
I also agree in that many people see themselves as victims and may not be thinking clearly or taking any personal responsibility for their actions. However, I don't see that the capitalists really know what to do about this phenomenon either, nor do they even care all that much. (Truth be told, my guess is that most capitalists prefer it this way, with a society full of weak-minded "victims" to take advantage of. Anyone who stands up against it must be discredited as "whiney" and "deluded" in order to take any public attention or blame off of capitalism. That's part of the capitalist agenda to keep Americans weak and dependent.)
There is a way to help people so that they don't think of themselves as victims and to help them face their problems proactively. They can't just sit passively and expect government to fix things; they have to stand up and fix government themselves.
But it also means challenging and attacking the many sacred cows within our society. Capitalism is a sacred cow which too many people are afraid to attack directly, so they instead opt to embrace another sacred cow, which might be referred to as "playing the victim card." Victims are also sacred cows in our society, as you must always give sympathy to a victim and you can never, ever "blame the victim" (very very unPC).
People think of themselves as victims because that's what our society has taught them. Even capitalists who complain about the Big Bad Gov and all the fees and taxes are playing the victim card because they know it sells.