Exaltist Ethan
Bridging the Gap Between Believers and Skeptics
(Part 1 of 2)
I'm going to try to meta this conversation.
The Baha'i Faith restricts sex between the marriage of one man and one woman since Abdul Baha led the religion. In fact, Islam allows three women to one man and Baha'u'llah initially believed in two women to one man. Abdul Baha changed this for Baha'is and made all Baha'i marriages one man and one woman. This was considered normal for the time, and change of this didn't happen because nobody asked for a change since Abdul Baha made it like this. Shoghi Effendi didn't change it, and because the Universal House of Justice isn't really supposed to change the religion in any drastic and unique ways, sex has always been restricted to marriage for Baha'is and marriage is only between a man and woman.
Is the doctrine of the Baha'i Faith homophobic? I would argue that Baha'u'llah and Abdul Baha restricted it in this way not because they wanted to shame or restrict the behavior of homosexuality, but because this was the normal thing to do at the time. Homosexuals are still allowed to join the Baha'i Faith, marry the opposite sex, and have sex with that partner, even if they don't enjoy that sex. I think the problem has less to do specifically with the Baha'i Faith and more to do with the God of Abraham. Baha'u'llah is a Messenger of this God, and according to the messages he received from Him, marriage in his religion was restricted between a man and woman.
This God, this person that Baha'u'llah communicated with, is someone that Baha'u'llah just happens to agree with everything God is telling him. In fact, the atheist or nonbeliever would say that this communication was between Baha'u'llah and himself, given the fact that he was in exile and by himself for so long, he needed to have discussions and used his own intuition to do this. And because intuition would have told most around at that time that marriage should be between one man and one woman, or really with him, one man and two women, he expressed these beliefs as part of a set of unique doctrines that tried to 'modernize' the Islamic faith, ultimately creating a new religion by doing so.
By today's standards, the Baha'i Faith would be considered homophobic for their beliefs, but during the time these beliefs were made, it was considered normal. In fact, in the mid-1990s Democrat President of the United States, Bill Clinton, passed the Defense of Marriage Act, which at that time declared all marriages should be between one man and one woman. That was a federal bill at that time that was only passed less than 20 years ago, and I don't think anyone would say that Bill Clinton is homophobic. The difference between Bill and Baha'u'llah is, Baha'u'llah and his descendants are either now dead or have converted back into Islam. So Baha'u'llah at this point doesn't have ability to change his mind.
I've had multiple personal experiences with members of the Baha'i Faith. Most of them are progressive Democrats with a few conservative social views, including this one. However, I have to and must separate the doctrine of the Baha'i Faith with the Baha'is I have encountered. I have never met a Baha'i in person, on the phone or online that ever expressed any amount of homophobic attitudes or beliefs to me. So, if I were to really answer this question, I would say that the teachings of the Baha'i Faith were considered normal at that time, and apparently even though they should the Universal House of Justice will not adapt to the government now allowing gay marriage legally, Baha'is in general have never appeared to be homophobic to me. Instead of treating people based on their institutions, I treat them candidly from personal interactions. I have a friend that's Catholic, for example, who is completely homophobic, but I've also met Catholics who aren't at the same time.
I'm going to try to meta this conversation.
The Baha'i Faith restricts sex between the marriage of one man and one woman since Abdul Baha led the religion. In fact, Islam allows three women to one man and Baha'u'llah initially believed in two women to one man. Abdul Baha changed this for Baha'is and made all Baha'i marriages one man and one woman. This was considered normal for the time, and change of this didn't happen because nobody asked for a change since Abdul Baha made it like this. Shoghi Effendi didn't change it, and because the Universal House of Justice isn't really supposed to change the religion in any drastic and unique ways, sex has always been restricted to marriage for Baha'is and marriage is only between a man and woman.
Is the doctrine of the Baha'i Faith homophobic? I would argue that Baha'u'llah and Abdul Baha restricted it in this way not because they wanted to shame or restrict the behavior of homosexuality, but because this was the normal thing to do at the time. Homosexuals are still allowed to join the Baha'i Faith, marry the opposite sex, and have sex with that partner, even if they don't enjoy that sex. I think the problem has less to do specifically with the Baha'i Faith and more to do with the God of Abraham. Baha'u'llah is a Messenger of this God, and according to the messages he received from Him, marriage in his religion was restricted between a man and woman.
This God, this person that Baha'u'llah communicated with, is someone that Baha'u'llah just happens to agree with everything God is telling him. In fact, the atheist or nonbeliever would say that this communication was between Baha'u'llah and himself, given the fact that he was in exile and by himself for so long, he needed to have discussions and used his own intuition to do this. And because intuition would have told most around at that time that marriage should be between one man and one woman, or really with him, one man and two women, he expressed these beliefs as part of a set of unique doctrines that tried to 'modernize' the Islamic faith, ultimately creating a new religion by doing so.
By today's standards, the Baha'i Faith would be considered homophobic for their beliefs, but during the time these beliefs were made, it was considered normal. In fact, in the mid-1990s Democrat President of the United States, Bill Clinton, passed the Defense of Marriage Act, which at that time declared all marriages should be between one man and one woman. That was a federal bill at that time that was only passed less than 20 years ago, and I don't think anyone would say that Bill Clinton is homophobic. The difference between Bill and Baha'u'llah is, Baha'u'llah and his descendants are either now dead or have converted back into Islam. So Baha'u'llah at this point doesn't have ability to change his mind.
I've had multiple personal experiences with members of the Baha'i Faith. Most of them are progressive Democrats with a few conservative social views, including this one. However, I have to and must separate the doctrine of the Baha'i Faith with the Baha'is I have encountered. I have never met a Baha'i in person, on the phone or online that ever expressed any amount of homophobic attitudes or beliefs to me. So, if I were to really answer this question, I would say that the teachings of the Baha'i Faith were considered normal at that time, and apparently even though they should the Universal House of Justice will not adapt to the government now allowing gay marriage legally, Baha'is in general have never appeared to be homophobic to me. Instead of treating people based on their institutions, I treat them candidly from personal interactions. I have a friend that's Catholic, for example, who is completely homophobic, but I've also met Catholics who aren't at the same time.
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