Grice's "rules" are really just assumptions that we all make when we engage in conversation.
Of course. They seem glaringly obvious, especially for those who are trying to speak to one another as computers might. But that's why I don't like them. Speaking to computers doesn't interest me, at least not now. They'll have to learn to joyfully and regularly break Grice's rules in order to entice me into dialogue.
They describe behavior, not prescribe it. When you violate them, you undermine the basis of linguistic conversation.
No, you're mistaken about that. When you violate them, you make conversation interesting, often even increasing the meaning content. Here, I'll show you:
Once I was walking with a newly-married couple when a pretty young woman rode past us on a horse. The husband stared a bit too closely. As we continued along, the wife commented to her husband, "Boy, you really did like that horse, didn't you, Rob."
According to Grice (and you, I guess?), that was a violation of the rules and should have undermined the basis of their linguistic communication. The wife's words were intentionally obscure, even misleading. She used the word 'horse' when she meant the word 'hotchick'. Her words said one thing while her meaning was something entirely different. And the meaning was crystal clear.
If she had said, "Stop staring at chicks, Rob," I'd argue that would have been a weaker communicative event. Rob would not have learned his lesson nearly so well. By violating the rules, she made the lesson memorable.
So if Grice's rules are really descriptive rather than prescriptive, he seems not to have gotten out much.
Poetry is not itself a speech act any more than prose is.
I find that an extraordinary assertion. So you believe no communication is occurring when we read books? Or are you limiting speech act to oral communication only?
Those are just styles of language that are comprised of speech acts.
I'm sorry but I must not know what you mean by 'speech act.' Could you define it for me as you're using it?
It is important to look at how and why people violate Gricean maxims intentionally. You can't actually understand how wordplay works without taking them into account.
Obviously. How else can you play with words except by knowing what is normal and expected?
What do you think those expressions mean?
I'm not referring to their meaning. I'm simply asking for your opinion. Do you deny or accept that a person can be an atheistic Christian? You seem to deny that a person can be a theistic atheist, no matter what those words mean to me. So I'm asking about atheistic Christians.
I've sure met a lot of atheistic Jews, so they claimed. I felt no need to inform them of their necessary nonexistence.
Are you talking about Mitt Romney? It is certainly reasonable for a person to take both liberal and conservative positions on different issues at the same time.
I'm sorry to complain, but Id really like you to attempt an answer to my question. Here it is again: Is it possible for me to be both a liberal and a conservative at the same time?
What is your opinion on that?
Exactly so. That is why usage determines word meanings. If you use meanings that nobody else subscribes to, then they cannot be on the "same page" as you, and communication breaks down. Here, at least, you seem to agree with my point. You just don't see that it is inconsistent with your apparent earlier position that you alone can determine what words mean.
Huh? I claimed that I alone can determine what words mean? Yikes. Please forgive me. Would you mind reposting my claim here so that I can go back and delete it from my message? I have absolutely no memory of it.
As for the idea of making up a unique language and being immediately understood by our neighbors, who would believe such a crazy thing to be possible? No one I can imagine. Have you met someone with such a bizarre belief about language?
Most of us still find dictionaries useful tools in understanding what words mean, however boring and tedious that may appear to you.
OK, OK, I admit it. Every couple of months I will look up a word at dictionary.com. (But I always do in in porn mode so as not to leave some slime-lined trail back to myself.)
If you want to be "on the same page" with other people and be sure that "all is fine with the communicative event," then you must put up with conventional usage. Otherwise, it is others who may find you tedious and boring.
Thanks for the advice, but no problems so far. Just the opposite. Most conventional thinkers seem to react to me more with outrage and upset than with boredom. I seem to unsettle people, often despite my best efforts otherwise.
How is it that you can say "words have limits" in one breath and then deny the fact that conventional usage determines those limits in another?
I've gone back and searched on the strings 'words have' and 'have limits' in our thread and I just can't find them. Can you tell me where I argued that 'words have limits'? Could you be confusing me with another poster?
I am not claiming that word meanings are static, only that wordplay and language change would be impossible if nobody acknowledged those limits.
Nobody acknowledges word limits? Or you are afraid that nobody will acknowledge word limits? I'm sorry but I'm just lost. We have substantial climbing to do before we happily arrive on SamePage Summit together.
Grice defined some fundamental limitations on conversational interactions, and then he went on to describe the interesting things that happened when people violated those limitations. At first blush, what he says appears obvious, but you cannot understand what isn't obvious until you know what is.
Again I'm not sure what you mean. Grice's 'limitations' appear very much obvious. I may have known them long before Grice even compiled and published them. (Don't know when he published. Don't care. Nothing personal against Grice.)
You completely misunderstand lexicography. It is not about prescribing word usage. It is about describing it.
Yikes.
Um... I am well-aware of how lexicography works, Copernicus. I might have been a dictionary maker myself if I hadn't been so bored with that side of linguistics.
Did you see that? Do you see how we are both using conventional word-meanings in our dialogue, yet you still got the absolute backwards understanding from me? Damned words. No matter how vanilla-flavored, we still can't trust them.
Lexicographers come up with poor definitions all the time, and they get into heated arguments with each other over how to define words. When you disagree with lexicographers, you may have a case, but you can only make that case on the basis of conventional usage.
Really, I don't know what you are saying or why you are saying it. I can only argue with lexicographers 'on the basis of conventional usage'? Are you saying that I couldn't have written them a letter 15 years ago suggesting that 'F-bomb' should be added to the dictionary, since it was not yet 'conventional usage'? Am I somewhere close to your meaning here?
Lexicographers don't encourage people to misuse dictionaries. People do that all on their own. They misuse dictionaries when they think of them as prescribing or dictating usage. That isn't their purpose. It is to inform readers about conventional usage. They help people improve their ability to communicate with language.
How does one misuse a dictionary? Can you say more about that?
Well, that is exactly the problem with your approach. You can speak for yourself, but you cannot speak for the listener. In the end, we come back to your point about being "on the same page" in order to make sure that "all is fine with the communicative event." I'm not just making this stuff up. Those were your words. Language is a social phenomenon, not just an individual one, but you want to treat words as if they meant just what the speaker wanted them to mean, not the language community that the speaker is part of.
From what I can tell, you have no good idea what I am saying. My meaning is sure not recognizable to me anywhere within your paragraph above.
What is this, a Turing Test for atheism? I don't define atheists in terms of their physical appearance or performance under interrogation.
Then how do you define them? If you can tell them apart without hearing their opinions, without hearing them speak, on what basis do you decide whether they are atheist or theist?