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How do you like your sex?

Sex before Marriage?

  • Must be married – Man and Woman only

    Votes: 7 16.7%
  • Must be married – Same sex ok

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Must be married – Open relationships ok

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Not married – But must be in love

    Votes: 5 11.9%
  • Not married – Friendly sex ok but only in relationship

    Votes: 8 19.0%
  • Not married – Anything goes, bring on the one night stands

    Votes: 18 42.9%
  • Not married – Solitary Sex is ok

    Votes: 2 4.8%
  • Sex is evil and should be avoided at all costs

    Votes: 2 4.8%

  • Total voters
    42

Trey of Diamonds

Well-Known Member
Alrighty, here's a juicy poll just in time for the weekend. We're looking for how you feel about premarital sex. Should the young folks go for it or hold back till marriage and it's too late to run screaming for the hills. Be sure to tell us why you voted the way you voted.
 

DreadFish

Cosmic Vagabond
Ok, now I see the options :D


Anyway, I think my answer would be somewhere in between. I dont think people need to be married, but I dont dig casual one night stands all that much either. I see sex as an intimate moment, regardless of who is involved, intimate in the fact that you are sharing your body and being very close and open with that person. If two people (or more, if you into that) enter into it willingly, and with care for the other/s involved and dont treat it like a mundane action that brings instant pleasure, or treat the other person like an object to satisfy their desire, then I see nothing impure about it, and nothing "wrong" with it.
 

Jainarayan

ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय
Staff member
Premium Member
I voted Friendly sex ok but only in relationship, but I do have my dark side. :devil:
 

Viker

Your beloved eccentric Auntie Cristal
Whew. I thought I was going to have to answer something like 'rough' or 'animalistic' for'how do you like your sex?'.

'Friendly sex ok but only in relationship' is fine.
 

Kilgore Trout

Misanthropic Humanist
Whew. I thought I was going to have to answer something like 'rough' or 'animalistic' for'how do you like your sex?'.

'Friendly sex ok but only in relationship' is fine.

Are there some other kinds besides rough and animalistic?
 

jarofthoughts

Empirical Curmudgeon
Alrighty, here's a juicy poll just in time for the weekend. We're looking for how you feel about premarital sex. Should the young folks go for it or hold back till marriage and it's too late to run screaming for the hills. Be sure to tell us why you voted the way you voted.

As long as we're talking consenting adults, I have no problem with it either way.
Let people do as they please. ;)
 

Trey of Diamonds

Well-Known Member
I answered as I think I will tell my daughter once she's a teenager. While I have no problems with one night stands, I think kids should be encourged to form relationships before engaging in sex rather than just going hog wild. So my feelings towards the poll would be different according to who I was talking about. Is it a double standard? Probably but one I'm comfortable with.
 

9Westy9

Sceptic, Libertarian, Egalitarian
Premium Member
Went with 'Not married – But must be in love' Hooray for being the first (and currently only) person to choose it. I feel like such a hipster xD

edit: No longer hipster xD (see below :p)
 
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illykitty

RF's pet cat
"Not married but must be in love" was my choice, doesn't matter if straight or gay. I view sex as more than just pleasure, for me it's a deep and intimate connection with someone. It is an expression of love, desire and passion.

I also consider the body a temple not to be shared with just anyone. That person has to be special. No more needs to be said, it's simple really.

Call me old fashionned, I'll take it as a compliment! :)
 

Erebus

Well-Known Member
"Not married but must be in love" was my choice, doesn't matter if straight or gay. I view sex as more than just pleasure, for me it's a deep and intimate connection with someone. It is an expression of love, desire and passion.

I also consider the body a temple not to be shared with just anyone. That person has to be special. No more needs to be said, it's simple really.

Call me old fashionned, I'll take it as a compliment! :)

I actually agree with this. Other people can do what they like for all I care, but I can think of nothing better than sex with somebody you could spend your life with.
 
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