I haven't read the other posts, so my advice might be redundant.....I remember being a kid first stumbling upon yahoo answers, and slap fighting with the creationists and all that. I used to let myself get stressed over it, frustrated that people just don't listen, etc. Then I just kind of gave up, not even sure what happened. Now I find myself in the same position with atheism and materialism. Sometimes no matter how much logic and evidence you shove in someone's face they still simply won't listen. Again I find myself angry and frustrated, and I want to know how to just let it go.
But then, is letting it go right? Sure you can't change the mind of a fundamentalist denying reason and evidence, but does that mean you just accept it? What about onlookers? What about a simple responsibility to challenge fundamentalism?
Any tips or thoughts?
1) Accept that there is fundamental disagreement, & that this likely won't change.
2) Strive for discussion instead of argument or debate.
3) If they're threatened by a view, seek to assuage that fear (eg, most heathens support religious freedom).
4) Exploring differences should be fun, & not cause stress or animus.
5) Recognize that with some people, discussion would be unproductive, & is best avoided.
Of course, the above advice is specifically for you.
It doesn't work for me.
My approach is to carefully listen to the argument of another,
& then pronounce it to be utterly wrong. Issue is settled.
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