I’m inviting whoever wants to, to explain what kind of love you think the world needs, and any ways that you can think of that people might learn to love that way.
(edit) Try to think of some ideas about how it happens sometimes, that people learn to love with the kind of love that the world needs. (end edit)
Well, first off we start by reading this article.
Love is Not Enough
The 1960s generated alot of sentiment of "lurve" I'd like to call it since it's often either outright lust, I love you (because I have to), or alot of posing in general. Let's all save the whales! Great... meanwhile, how are you treating your brother who like your dad and mom are very conservative and live in the country? What's that? You cut all ties with them after the Trump election?
Let's try something different.
One, we're gonna try self-acceptance. I am said brother. I'm conservative. I'm also in the LGBT spectrum (making me kinda like a Log Cabin type only for trans, I get told the worst slurs actually by liberals because I don't fit into a neat ideological box). As a trans person who saw clearly how the left acted in response to the Pulse nightclub shooting, I turned my back on them. I also started turning my back on the notion that conservatives are all transphobic after being in a small town and being accepted. I also learned that rather than the "no such thing" reaction when I told liberals I was conservative and trans, I can love myself and it's actually the first step of loving others as yourself. When you manage this, everything seems to get better.
Two, we're gonna need honesty. More important than love (sorry "lurve") is to be a good friend to others and sometimes good friends tell each other hard truths, like "the left is bribing ppl with free self-phones and free college, but there is very little actually free to this, both in the end of year tax price tag, and the loss of many of the Bill of Right protections, like my right to be armed, or speak only without being banned or censored. You should also ask many of these special interest types if they like the backlash from all their civil rights groups preventing them from having a normal time of it (that is, because my group is hitting ppl up for $250k for misgendering, I get more mistrust, and many ppl have more trouble securing a real job) and often ending up on welfare instead." And I'm gonna try to tell you when you're being hysterical , or not using good logic. I'm also gonna have to ask you to seriously try to argue with me, and tell me your concerns. Honesty is the antidote to all this censorship, and also the first step to mending things.
Lastly, we need faith. The secular system of the 60s created a bunch of rootless and broken people who keep engaging in meaningless relationships. When we say faith, it doesn't mean belief. It means faithfulness. The willingness to have integrity. The ability to stay true to people and places. To actually try not to have fufteen partners and get STDs but stay with one person even if there's nothing in it for you sexually. To actually talk to people and try to stand by them. And to take responsibility when your decisions turn out to suck. I see alot of Muslims refugeeing to other countries because things are terrible there. No. You need to stay in Pakistan or Syria or Ethiopia, and be the change the country needs. You need to be a good husband, not some guy who heads to Europe leaving his wife behind (actually a thing in Syria). And for liberals in US, who move to Texas or Virginia or Florida because the taxes suddenly got high, you need to suck it up and be faithful to your state's vision, or you need to admit that big government doesn't work. Your choice, but coming here is bringing your problems with you. Either accept things or change them, but you don't have to live like a refugee.
Lastly, we need to understand that real love is not pretending to be happy all the time. It's a marriage to God. And when you're married to God, expect to sometimes have squabbles. But God wants the real us, not someone who seems happy but has checked out.