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How old were you when you stopped being atheist?

cablescavenger

Well-Known Member
Well... how old were you when you stopped beating you wife, then?

It might be a loaded question, but it is an honest one.

Atheism is lack of belief, so everyone is born atheist and most will become religious later on. My question is trying to find out how old were they when they took up theism and what was the driver behind it.

Was it parents, teachers, peers, school, Sunday school etc
 

cablescavenger

Well-Known Member
Some people say that kids are naturally born atheists. So maybe I'm an atheist at birth, and stopped sometime... probably when I was 3 years old.

But if that's not the case, then I don't recall my self being an atheist.
Are you saying you don't remember a time when you didn't believe? If you were three I assume it was your parents?
 

dyanaprajna2011

Dharmapala
How young was I when I first accepted theism? One of the earliest memories I have was around the age of four, when I asked if someone in my family could buy me a bible. I don't recall anyone in my family ever discussing religion, my parents certainly weren't believers; my mom has never been a believer, and my dad, not until later in his life. So I don't really know where the desire came from. But I became an atheist just about a year and a half ago, at 31 years old. But I don't really think of myself as an atheist, more of an agnostic, or rather, an apatheistic agnostic, in other words, I think that we cannot know whether a god exists or not, and I don't really care if one does. Based on the knowledge we have, in my way of thinking, if a god does exist, the most that we can say about it, is that it's probably deistic.
 

cablescavenger

Well-Known Member
I knew someone would say something. I believe we're born agnostic. I believe you actually have to know about God in order to know whether you are theist or atheist. You can't say you believe in something or don't believe in something that you don't know about, can you? :sarcastic

Atheist is lack of belief. So if you you are not aware of a God, or don't believe in a God then you are atheist.

Agnostic is you do not know if God does or does not exist. To be agnostic you have to be aware of the concept of a God. Since a baby has no such awareness they will be without belief and therefore atheist.
 

cablescavenger

Well-Known Member
Can someone explain this exchange to me? I don't follow... :eek:

I have asked when someone stopped being atheist and became religious, in other words people are born without belief.

Willamena sees this as a loaded question implying anyone who answers it admits they were once atheist.

Willamena has responded by using her own version of a well known saying "Have you stopped beating your wife?" Where if you answer either "Yes" or "No" then by implication you are admitting you once beat the wife.

The difference between the question I have put forward and the one Willamena suggested is that mine is true. Everyone would have been without belief in a God when they were young and before they found religion.

That said, Willamena is correct in that I did choose the words and put them there on purpose.

I am not suggesting for a second all people are atheist, but I do think it important to recognise that atheism is just a default position and not one of bad people. Some will move on from that position and choose a religion some won't.
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
Atheist is lack of belief. So if you you are not aware of a God, or don't believe in a God then you are atheist.

Agnostic is you do not know if God does or does not exist. To be agnostic you have to be aware of the concept of a God. Since a baby has no such awareness they will be without belief and therefore atheist.

I think you have that backwards. Since one would have to at least know of a concept of god in order to state that they don't believe in it, one would have to have knowledge of at least one deity concept before one could be atheist. You can't reject that which you don't know about. To be agnostic one has no stance one way or the other in belief of deity, whether they have knowledge of the choices or not. So therefore, a baby would be agnostic.
 

Kathryn

It was on fire when I laid down on it.
Atheist is lack of belief, so you would have been atheist before becoming religious.


Atheist is a lack of belief in a diety/Supreme Being/whatever you want to call it.

I said I do not ever recall a time, from my earliest memories, that I didn't believe in a Being outside and "over" all creation, and my memories start at about age 2.

Since we can only offer conjecture about what infants know and don't know about the origins of life, neither of us can say with any certainty whether or not humans are born atheists.

One thing is for sure - infants could tell us things we know nothing about, if they could talk.
 

JMorris

Democratic Socialist
Its a shame that you forget what god looks like as your brain forms. If only they had the motor skills, maybe they could solve the world's problems. Something to do with sucking your own toes perhaps?
 

Gharib

I want Khilafah back
Lol.

Is that true then? People of the Muslim faith believe their children are born Muslim? Is it in the Qu'ran?

both the Qur'an and hadith mention it:

[30:30] So direct your face toward the religion, inclining to truth. [Adhere to] the fitrah of Allah upon which He has created [all] people. No change should there be in the creation of Allah . That is the correct religion, but most of the people do not know.

Narrated Abu- Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "No child is born except on Al-fitra (Islam) and then his parents make him Jewish, Christian or Magian, as an animal produces a perfect young animal: do you see any part of its body amputated?" Then he rec 'The religion of pure Islamic Faith (Hanifa),(i.e. to worship none but Allah), The pure Allah's Islamic nature with which He (Allah) has created mankind. Let There be no change in Allah's religion (i.e. to join none in Allah's worship). That is the straight religion; but most of men know not..." (30.30) (Book #60, Hadith #298)
 

Falvlun

Earthbending Lemur
Premium Member
It might be a loaded question, but it is an honest one.

Atheism is lack of belief, so everyone is born atheist and most will become religious later on. My question is trying to find out how old were they when they took up theism and what was the driver behind it.

Was it parents, teachers, peers, school, Sunday school etc

I have two problems with the assumption that humans are born atheists. First, and more importantly, it appears inaccurate. New studies show that it's more likely that humans are predisposed towards a basic animism, and our penchant for ascribing agency and purpose to things is well known. Because of these things, we might very well be predisposed to inherently believing in some sort of god concept.

My second problem is that to describe infants as atheists really seems to suck any meaning out of the word. Regardless of whether you wish to define atheism as a "lack of belief" or not, at least have the courtesy to refrain slapping labels on children until they are old enough to form beliefs themselves, and understand what they are.
 
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