It's interesting you chose an emotional evaluation of what I said. That's not relying on rational propositional truths. Do you believe that your emotions are entirely subject to your rational thoughts? That's what I hear you stating you hold as the ideal, to find "objective" truth to validate subjective feelings, but yet your response was not from a place of rationality, but from a feeling statement "cold".
Hmm...I thought we were talking about the subjective aspect at that point.
You do realize that "comparing notes" is in fact an inter-subjective experience? You have two, or multiple subjective individuals sharing their subjective thoughts with others subjective thoughts and opinions, and coming to some form of mutual agreements based on shared subjective perceptions, thoughts, ideas, frameworks, systems, etc?
In other words, it's a somewhat rather closed group-system of reality, that those of that tribe happen to have developed a common language around a set of shared cultural perspectives that creates a shared reality that they all agree on? This pretty much defines all cultures and the relative nature of truth.
Which is why it is necessary to have people from as many different backgrounds and with as many different ideas as possible to suggest testable alternatives and possible gaps in logic.
Objectivity *is* having a public means of testing.
No, truths are not objective. They're shared subjective points of reference and a mutual agreement of that particular basic view of reality. There is no such thing as an "objective truth", only an agreement with other subjects trying to create a common language and point of view in order to share the same space together of what the hell all this mess out there means.
Well, that's what it means to be objective: that it is possible to have a public means of testing.
The only way for that to happen is to set aside all language, and all thoughts, ideas, concepts, etc. This is a state of mindlessness, as the Buddhists might call it. Very few people, do this. We always colorize reality with an idea of our mind. The only way out of this, is meditation. Is that what you say you are trying to do? If so, I agree with that. If you are saying you're trying to be objective in thinking about it, I know that will fail.
Strange. So most people don't just experience? They always add language to it? Sure, as a means of communicating with others, but internally also?
I guess I just do this naturally. It doesn't seem difficult or problematic. The hard part, for me, is putting experiences into language to be able to communicate them to others.
You see, I don't understand this. "Fun ride for awhile". If something has actual meaning to you, it's not mastubetory. It's not a thrill of the moment. It has significance. It has lasting, deeper meaning.
Well, for me, it has meaning only if it is true. To find out it is merely symbolic or that it is not 'real' makes the experience vacuous.
A symbol is a hook for that deeper sense of meaning to have some "object" for the mind to look to that points to that deeper, or transcendent meaning to. It gives it a face, that is "supernatural", in the sense that it's not just a rock or some common object laying around. It is imbued with meaning. It holds things like hope, love, truth, promise, and all these intangible, subjective truths that constitute pretty much every waking moment of our days on some deep subjective background level. In other words, our actual lived realities.
OK, so I don't get why symbols, in that sense, are needed. Just have the experience. Why move the experience to something else and thereby negate it?
But reality is what you are choosing it to be. Just like it was reality for you before when you believed what you did, but now decided you don't believe anymore. And the same thing will be tomorrow, when you realize that what you believe today, no longer fits reality as you see it then.
No, reality is NOT what I choose it to be. That is the whole point. Reality is there no matter what I tell myself or what I want. It is independent of what I believe. That is the whole point.