I don't think it is a case of finger pointing or "us" and "them". It is a case of telling it like it is, no matter if you step on people's toes to point out the obvious. It's not about one being more sanctimonious than another, but better to have a sore toe than lose your salvation. Jesus did not hesitate to step on the toes of those who should have known better. Lives were at stake. (Matt 23:33) All Jesus asks us to do is evaluate what we believe and practice honestly and by using Bible teachings.
Church going folk are not generally taught to study God's word and adhere to ALL its teachings. They seem to have an attitude that 'if I show up for church once a week and sing praises to God and have a minister/pastor/priest give me a nice sermon and pray on my behalf, then that lets me off the hook for all the other things I "ought to do", like preaching the kingdom at every opportunity, staying married to the one to whom you made vows of "till death do us part" and divorce only on the grounds of a mate's adultery. These are not deemed 'necessary things' that a Christian "ought" to do these days, because they do not fit in with the current lifestyle....yet every one of them was commanded by Christ. We cannot pick and choose what bits of Christianity suit us and conveniently ignore the rest.
There seems to be no discipline administered in the churches either. Yet the apostle Paul clearly outlined what was to be done with unrepentant sinners. They were not to sit as members in good standing in the congregation, making a mockery of God's laws. The admonition was to "remove" them from fellowship after lovingly counseling them and giving them opportunity to repent and seek God's forgiveness. (Gal 6:1; 1 Cor 5:9-13) Judging within the congregation was authorized by God and the necessary discipline was to be administered in the hope of preventing that one from losing their salvation. Should we be less diligent about such things because we live in immoral times? I would think we need to be more diligent about them. (Gal 6:7-10) :sad:
All we can do is point out the truth from God's word and hope that honest hearts are listening. We have examples in times past where warning was given, but no one took any notice. They were happy to just maintain the status quo. (Matt 24:37-39)
History repeats.....