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If homosexuality is a choice, why can't I choose to be attracted to men?

dust1n

Zindīq
For those that assert homosexuality is some sort of conscious decision.. why can't I consciously decide to be sexually attracted to men?
 

Rainbow Mage

Lib Democrat/Agnostic/Epicurean-ish/Buddhist-ish
Dust1n maybe you should just pray that god will change you into a fabulous gay man. You need to fight those hetero urges, they're unnatural, LOL
 

ChristineES

Tiggerism
Premium Member
I couldn't tell you. Confession: I am usually attracted to men, but there were a couple of times when I was attracted to females. Nothing came of it and those women never knew but I can't help but wonder where it came from or even why.
 

Rainbow Mage

Lib Democrat/Agnostic/Epicurean-ish/Buddhist-ish
Mr. Cheese what is wrong with the Brady Bunch? First you put down Spongebob and now the Bradys! You have no taste
 

Rainbow Mage

Lib Democrat/Agnostic/Epicurean-ish/Buddhist-ish
Axis Mundi that's the devil making you think that. I'm telling you, heterosexuality is unnatural. You need to get you a man, LOL (Sarcasm)
 

Duck

Well-Known Member
LOL.. okay, okay seriously.. ANYONE WHO THINKS HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CHOICE:

Why can't I be gay?

[snark] Well because that would be exercising the free will that you were created with...and doing that is a one way ticket to burnin in a lake of fi-ah! GLORY! [/snark]
 

dust1n

Zindīq
I don't think you guys understand. I am in love with a man; but I can't feel sexually attracted to him! Why can't I make myself sexually attracted to men? (Or goats, for that matter.)
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
Yeah, you know, I probably would have had a much easier time of things had I been able to be attracted to women. I've had a few lesbians have serious crushes on me. One inparticular hit on me more than once while she was drunk and then embarassingly apologized for it afterwards. She admitted that she "liked" me very much and, I found out, moaned my name in her sleep a few times. She was a very nice girl, great to hang out with, but I just did not feel inclined towards her that way at all. Perhaps if I could have then I might have had a really nice relationship, but no...I was stuck in a nightmare of a relationship with a guy. Why can't I just "choose" to be attracted to women like that?
 
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