By God's standards we are flawed. By my standards, we are flawed. I see what people do around me, and everyone is selfish. I see me, and I am not impressed. I don't see too many good people. Don't get me wrong, I've met a few old men, and a few old women that have impressed me with their integrity, and honor. But I don't see that in most people today. Everyone sucks in my opinion. Greedy, selfish, backstabbing, gossipers, liars. No one is good...no, not one.
I've spent some time around criminals. I talk with homeless people who are depicted as alcoholics (on purpose), people who don't
want a job, and people who don't care rather than people who are going through spiritual depression, people who can't get a job because our system is messed up, and people who care but can't do anything about it given age, mental condition, and living conditions.
I work with Christians who say they love the sinner but hate the sin then tell me to my face I will be judged and go to hell
and she is my friend.
I've interviewed child molesters and I have a heart break for all priests who are put in the same boat as priest who have child molested especially priests who have saved my spiritual well being.
I see people die or dying mentally. I've experienced my boat load of mess. I don't see any flaws in these things because I actually got to know these people who took lives. I got to talk with my friend to see where she came from of why I will go to hell and talked with her it's not what she said but the how. I talk with the homeless and find they value conversation because our system makes it so hard to get out that you'd literally need over a million to get out safely
and stay out or move. I've talked with severely mentally disabled people who our government put them in the same place with sane people who have dangerous motives for future crimes. I've finally got one person to leave the rehab place I was at by not forcing her but she found out she could get an education without anyone putting her down.
She wasn't flawed but people thought she was because of her background, her illnesses, and her living conditions.
Yet, that's not
who we are. These are situational things and they don't define us. We lie but we are not liers. That is not
who we are that is what we do. (The government tends to put labels on us rather than our actions). We murder but
we are not murderers. That's just what we do.
I believe we are not flawed inside and each of us have a human need to be whole or holistically healthy and connected with life. Our mental and physical body is naturally adapt to survive as long as it can, go through natural sickness, and die. It's not flawed, it's life and the human condition.
I'd say if we called ourselves flawed, then we would be inherited liars, murderers, thieves, etc. I have yet to see a child be a thief without situational issues involved (give me my toy, type of thing).
Both of us have different experiences. I just find it sad to hear people who don't love their family anymore. People who turn their back to the homeless because
they feel that person will use their money for bad things when charity has no reservations whatsoever. I find it flawed to even have that mindset. I can forgive liars. I can forgive murderers. However, we have a choice to think in bias ways. We have a choice to see someone has a bad person or someone who is probably finding ways to make himself a better person. We have a choice to accept that people are happy where they are regardless of how we feel about the situation.
If we can change our mindset, hopefully the "We are flawed; we are mere humans; we are limited" will get from people's minds. Hopefully working together will get us out of this "I am the only one who doesn't do this" situation and accept that we can be murderers to, backstabbing, and all the above.
We have to associate ourselves with people we have bias with. Find ways to see their spirit, connect their spirit with who they are
also in the flesh. Treat and see them in their pure form rather than wait until the afterlife for it.
That's how I feel.