Koldo
Outstanding Member
It came mostly as a consequence of studying the sciences with a dash of philosophy mixed in. Seeing how interconnected and interdependent everything was, I began to realize that I only existed because of all these other things existing. Without all of it put together - regardless of how I personally felt about any of the universe - I wouldn't be here to be asking that question. There was a deep humility and respect that came out of that. I became far less concerned with projecting judgements of "goodness" and "badness" onto the universe than accepting what is and finding peace in that.
That doesn't mean I don't whine about stuff I don't like as much as the next human does. What it means is I try to keep in mind a non-anthropocentric, non-egocentric perspective.
I find it intriguing that you view yourself as trying to keep a non-egocentric perspective, because...
Let me put it this way: Why does it matter if your existence depends on "all these other things existing"? Why even mention your existence?
At the very least, to recognize judgements I'm making are projections onto reality, and not the territory itself. And I get to control those stories I tell, so why not tell them in ways that are constructive to me? Seeing intrinsic value in all things encourages wide-eyed wonder and exploration and learning of everything. I like that. Others don't like that. They get to set their own values and tell their own stories.
But since you are trying to achieve a non-egocentric perspective, isn't what you find to be constructive to you inconsequential? But either way, I digress.