I really love that analogy.
Why do you think we(humankind) separate in the first place?
That is a depth charge question. My answer may be wholly inadequate since it deals with the heart of mankind which is quite deep and and complex.
Personally thinking, I would say the root cause is pride. Like “i think I know better and I don’t need anyone helping me”. Like my elder brother. Potentially, we can mask pride and have it manifest in different forms like comparing one with another, or, I am morally pretty good as we compare ourselves with other people but I think it all boils down to pride. Some people would call it ego.
That's a lot of influence you had on your family! Sounds very positive in the end, too, even if there were bumps here and there.
I take it that it has enriched family relationships?
Yes. The change of heart and letting God in has changed drug addicts to worship leaders. Broken marriages to whole marriages. Broken an hearts filled with hopelessness to healed hearts with a future.
You say you had become mature enough to know what to do. Can you illustrate what "delving into God and His word" looks like?
There is a phrase that says, “Don’t read the word, let the word read you!”. In other words, we believe the words are filled with light and life and if we let the light shine in our hearts, the words, like a vitamin, are filled with life that when released changes your life. The process never ends because, like any relationship, you continue to learn, grow and discover.
Like building a piece of furniture, you look at the directions and go step by step applying physically what you are reading.
Something as simple the template of what is called “The Lord’s Prayer, and applying its principles can change one’s life. Take when we discovered and understood the necessity, the value and the benefits of forgive others that you may be forgiven. Again, letting the word of God read you! My wife and I looked into our hearts and realized that we were carrying heavy load of hurts because we hadn’t dumped the load through forgiveness.
When i forgave my father and she forgave her father, not only were we happier but our marriage improved. It is all interconnected.
“Delving into His word” means don’t just getting knowledge, it is also getting application and getting closer to Him. It is studying and slowing the reading process down until in your meditation God speaks to you through His word. Let the word read and check you heart and soul (mind, will and emotions.
Edited: It’s like grafting two tree trunks together until it takes, you cut your thoughts and viewpoints, take God’s thoughts an viewpoints and graft it into your thinking until it takes and produces change.
Obviously one could write a book on this. Many have.
What were some of the problems going out, and what were some of the problems beginning a new church?
The main problem going out was to make sure I didn’t pull anyone out from the church I was going to. Going out with blessing and not creating a division. That was basically solved by being completely a Spanish speaking ministry. It was this church that led us to Christ and saved my marriage. Their teachings built a foundation that left a spiritual legacy that still produces today. No words can express our gratitude.
The pastor has taught in my church and I have taught in his. We are united in heart and purpose. Our love and appreciation is eternal. We interact to this day.
Beginning the church. I think that it was like a three quarter filled glass of water. When you zero into the filled portion, you can’t see the empty part. As I look back, I don’t really remember any “problems”. I probably just saw it as an opportunity or “the next step” and simply let God lead my wife and I and guide us. (It was a family affair).
As we grew, more people helped, gaps were filled, ministries were developed. Like a child that may have growing pains but it really isn’t a “problem” it is just growing pains.
We are going through that right now. We have grown 50% in about a year and a half. No “problems’ per se but rather, “OK, what do we need to develop as we continue to change lives.
I know few who could do that. Maybe no one?
LOL - yup - no one. Transformation is over time by receiving the word of God and letting it change your thinking. There is a truth in “you are what you think” - and the word helps us know what God thinks of us (nothing but good).
How did your family take that?
My family was excited for me. They use to call my home “the hospital.” Even though they didn’t live close - (except for my sis-in-law and fam) , they would arrive one way and by the time they left they were encouraged or changed even before we started the church.
That being said… from the time my wife and I got married up to 30 years of marriage - 27 of them we had someone from my family or my wife’s family living with us. We raised two of her younger sisters and one of my younger brother. There was some years between them and us.
How did you get word out that there was a new church?
Word of mouth. No internet presence, no facebook, no twitter. Back when there was just ”The Yellow Pages” - telephone book
I love that!
What are some of the things you do as a Pastor?
When I first started my family did: The set-up, the worship, the offering, the message, the accounting, the tear down… lol we did it all. My children took care of any babies and did the “small children’s ministry”. That changed pretty quick… soon we had two homes and my sister-in-law and husband did the children’s ministry while the adults were at my home. (they were about 5 minutes away.)
Marriage counseling, budgeting, marriage ceremonies, celebrations of life, spiritual guidance, hospital visitations, mentoring, youth nights at our house, retreats, seminars, community events… pretty much, you name it we have done it or, as we grew, our church has done it. Construction, worked a cement jack-hammer, nail gun - lol jack of all trades but, hopefully, mastering pastoring.
You can do a lot in 33 years
LOL… I even submitted architectural plans and was the general contractor under the guise of “owner remodeling”. They were approved and we did the work.