I don't think it's negative, but it's certainly an outlook that takes a lot of effort to follow. A lot of people equate effort with negativity, though, so maybe in that regard it's yes.
I adamantly disagree with this.
Most Christians of
my experience (which is mostly the first 18 years of my life in southern baptist / supposedly-nondenominational-but-still-rather-s.baptist churches, and all of my life with a Southern Baptist, Southwest Seminary-trained pastor as a father) approach Christianity in what I consider a rather lazy way. So much emphasis is placed on forgiveness and "giving your troubles up to God". Got depression? Low self esteem? Social ineptitude? Your best friend just died? Give your troubles or grief or whatever-it-is to God, he'll help you.
There's next to
no emphasis on personal growth, on thinking for yourself, on improving yourself. You're not "supposed" to fix
yourself because that's too much like trying to save yourself and after all, only God can do that! You can't "get to Heaven" by being a good person or improving yourself or helping others or any of that, so while it's good to do, you don't
need to do any of that. Just ask Christ into your heart, give all your problems over to God, and he'll take care of
everything! You won't have to do anything beyond trusting God to take care of it all!
Sounds like the lazyman's religion to me. This depiction of God doesn't want people of strong will, he doesn't want people who think for themselves, he doesn't want anyone independent; he only wants sheep.
That image is reinforced with the idea of "lambs of God" and "Christ is the Good Shepherd" and on and on.
Now, I'm not saying this is all 100% Biblically supported. I still greatly respect my dad for telling me to always think for myself, to never take what a pastor or religious "authority" says at face value, to always check it for myself. He quoted a Bible verse for this, something that Paul wrote; I can't find the exact verse at the moment. I credit my dad and that verse for teaching me to think for myself. (Of course, when my conclusions were different from my parents' conclusions or interpretations, I was then told that "I must not be praying hard enough" or "I must not be hearing God correctly" or "I must be interpreting that passage incorrectly". But I digress; that's about individual/group hypocrisy that I've observed among many Christians, not about Christianity as a religion on its own merit.)
And of course there's always the adage of "God helps those who help themselves", and various other parts of the Bible that encourage charity and self-growth and such. The problem is, too many Christians and too much of
modern Christianity (which I still maintain as rather at odds with what Christianity began as and perhaps should have stayed - I think Christianity would be better off disregarding Paulian writings as a whole, or learning to take Paul's words as
advice from a mortal teacher rather than Biblical Gospel That Shall Not Be Questioned and is Absolutely, Literally Correct) who take the lazy view of Christianity.
Any religion focusing more on self and rigorous self-transformation/self-growth, in my opinion, is more of a challenge and takes
far more effort to follow than any religion that's almost completely "faith"-centric (such as the Abrahamic religions). YMMV.
There are some Christians who still preach hell and brimstone, but Jesus' teachings (as I and others have said) are about love and forgiveness. It is not fair to judge ALL Christians by what a few do.
Agreed - but it's not just "some" Christians preaching hell and brimstone. Or it is just some (heavily congregated in the southern USA), but then there are a ton of very hypocritical Christians, or Christians who preach a "soft" version of hell and brimstone, or of exclusion and intolerance... Sadly, the Christians who are all about love and forgiveness are few and far between, by my experience. I have great respect for the few I've met, but most fall very short of that mark.
No, it isn't fair to judge all Christians by what some Christians do. But when you've been burnt again and again and again and
again by Christians... it's hard not to be bitter. I won't list all the hypocrisies and the pain I've seen friends put through in the name of God, I won't list all my personal wounds caused in the name of the Christian God. I don't want make this too personal, I don't want it to sound/feel like I'm attacking Christianity. But trust me, there are more than just "a few" Christians who do not practice the love and forgiveness that they preach.
The biggest problem, I think, is that the "hell and brimstone" Christians are LOUD. The fundamentalists and hate-mongerers with their "God Hates ****" signs are loud and visible and they speak often and angrily.
If you want to change the image of Christianity, if you think it's not fair for people to judge Christianity by the actions of "a few", then
you're going to have to be as loud as the people who give your religion a bad name. The problem is, most of the Christians who practice love and forgiveness and follow the truth of Christ's message rather than the dogma built up over the centuries are
quiet, they don't speak up loudly
against the ones who pervert the message. They are
passive, they allow the hate-messages and perversions of Christianity to continue undebated and unchallenged, they
say nothing except where it can barely be heard.
The loudest ones are always the ones who get heard and who end up representing a group. Often they're an embarrassment to the rest of the group. Often they're representing that group inaccurately. But they're the ones who manage to draw the attention by their vividness and volume, so they're the ones people tend to get their impressions from. It sucks, it's not necessarily right, but that's how it is.
My understanding of 'overcoming nature' is not that we dominate our environment and other creatures, but that we overcome our natural self-centeredness and aggressive tendencies.
Isn't there something in the Bible about being stewards of this world? A good steward maintains, protects, and improves that which they are stewards over. I've always heard that verse (and I'd have to hunt to find it) given as a reason for Christians to help protect the environment.
from the beginning this has been true: there are only two fundamental responses to the Christ of the Gospel, offense or faith (negative, or positive). it is perfectly understandable that an unbeliever would be offended by Christ yesterday, today, and tomorrow, it is all the same now as it was then.
Bull. The "either/or" statement is misleading. It's not a this-or-that situation, not black-and-white.
I'm not offended by the Gospel. I'm not offended by Christ. I'm not offended by Christ's teachings. On the contrary - I think it's a beautiful story with a lot of very good messages. I appreciate what Christ and Christianity taught me during my time as a Christian. I like Jesus and have nothing against
him.
I don't have "faith" in Christ or Jehovah either, though. The reason I left? Christianity simply doesn't fit me; it doesn't adequately explain my experiences; I feel called to a different path and I feel called by different gods. I feel that Christ fostered me, so to speak, during my childhood and teenage years - a fostering with the understanding that I belonged to another and would go to that other when the time came. I feel that I left Jesus' flock on good terms, and I don't think he's upset about that.
I think everyone has their path to walk and everyone belongs to particular gods (however abstract those gods are or aren't), and some belong to Christ and some some belong to Kali and some belong to Allah and I belong to Wepwawet, though I think Christ will accept anyone (whereas other gods will not). I don't think anyone can really be content or fulfilled on a path they were not meant for.
(I also think that you can be perfectly content/fulfilled as an athiest, or on a path that doesn't really involve gods, because I think some gods - such as those of knowledge - don't require direct conscious worship, and the pursuit of knowledge [or chaos, or questioning, or healing, or any number of other paths in life] is their worship.)
If I'm "offended" by anything about Christianity, it's the actions and hypocrisies of those who claim to follow Christ's teachings but pervert a message of love into a message of hate.