Hello again!
I do not know the context of this post since I cannot see who you were replying to, but it caught my eye….
I do not think you should lose self because then you would no longer exist. That is impossible to do anyway because the self is the soul and it is eternal. Your individuality and uniqueness will go with you when you die because that is the sum total of who you are, your personality, your soul, your self. Your soul continues to exist after your body dies and that is why it is so important to find your
true self while in this mortal world…
The entire purpose of life’s journey in this mortal world is so you can find your true self. That is one reason God sends Messengers, to educate us, so we will understand who we really are as spiritual beings and seek to acquire those attributes.
“The Purpose of the one true God, exalted be His glory, in revealing Himself unto menis to lay bare those gems that lie hidden within the mine of their true and inmost selves. That the divers communions of the earth, and the manifold systems of religious belief, should never be allowed to foster the feelings of animosity among men, is, in this Day, of the essence of the Faith of God and His Religion.” Gleanings, p. 287
However, sadly, many people go through life not even caring who they really are, because they live for the material world and all that is therein; they live as if their body is who they are, when in reality it is only a
vehicle that houses the soul, the only entity that continues to exist after we die.
Matthew 16:24-26
“Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me. For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it. For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?”