We don't have enough threads about the problem of suffering, we have to suffer one more?
My thoughts exactly. Although I do always wonder if people believe God causes suffering, is the opposite true as well, do they also credit God with the blessings received in the world?
These are my thoughts, up for the taking or leaving
I think everyone questions why in times like suffering. I think it's natural. I think some things we will just never have an answer for and that is SO hard. For me, that's just part of where faith and trust comes in. I don't say that loosely either. I honestly don't know where it comes from other than from God. For me, I know in my heart that God is good, that God's plans are more distant and eternal than I could ever understand. I just have faith and trust that God has a purpose and a plan and he allows things for a reason. That doesn't make it less painful for us, the ones left behind but it gives me a sense of peace. I found this verse when we had our first m/c "
These have come so that your faithof greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by firemay be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed." (1 Peter 1:7) I learned that when these things happen it shows me how much I really do need God and need his infinite strength to get me through. I am weak, He is strong. I don't believe all suffering is bad. Test, trials, tribulations can often make us stronger, better people. The only purpose/reason/plan that I can see is for Jesus to be revealed. I guess to people who don't believe in Jesus that's not a big deal but for me as a Christian that's a wonderful thing and very important. I don't always know how or when he will be revealed, again part of faith and trust. Heck I may never even see him revealed through me and my trial, I just pray that he will be to someone else, even if I never know it. As I said it doesn't take away all the pain for me but it does bring me a sense of peace and comfort.
I have always remembered something our pastor said as well, "God will never go against his own will and will not impose on the will of others." God allows sometimes tragic things to happen b/c he allows people to have free will, even when that means doing wrong and harming people, b/c we aren't robots
But I believe God can take anything and bring good from it.
I don't know if anything I've said makes sense or just makes things worse. That is what has gotten me through some tough, very sad times. I still ask Why though and still miss my loved ones very much, but I do have a sense of peace and comfort in what I believe, if that makes sense.