Questions like these only make sense in a world where one believes there is a God behind it.
Doesn't have to be a God, simply that there is an intent behind it, could also be super advanced aliens etc. God is just our most popular choice
That is why nature's suffering is not seen as a huge mystery to atheists, which needs to be blamed at someone or requires an answer.
That is a good observation. However, it is notable that most believers do not question God the way I do and ask the hard questions I ask. Thye simply accept what their scriptures say about God.
I think all believers question God occasionally, but not all might be as vocal about it as you or give it as much thought
. I don't think a lot of believers even think about nature's cruelty as an issue in relationship to God. And even if they don't think too much about it, they still run into problems with the natural science that surrounds them which somehow needs to fit into this worldview. This is why we have gotten stuff like "Maybe God designed evolution to work like that", despite there being nothing in the text to support it. But it allows them to fit two contractions together.
As for fearing God, believers do not fear what God might do to them as long as they are following what their scriptures say to believe and do.
But this I would say is not the same as someone fearing the police and getting thrown in jail, because most rules are pretty clear-cut and only apply if caught. You can't hide from God, so even your thoughts are visible to him, and the punishment, depending on what one believes, could be an eternity in hell, so we are talking about two different types of fear.
In the first one, we as individuals are in full control, so you could do something that is against the law, but if you consider it a stupid law or a minor issue should you be caught, you can do it without any huge problems. For instance, driving past a red light on a bicycle is illegal here in Denmark, but the majority of people do that pretty often if they consider it safe.
But God makes this judgment for you, so it doesn't matter whether you consider something to be a minor issue or outright stupid. If God disagrees he will punish you for it, which is where the fear comes from.
For those who are happy with the explanations in their scriptures it is not hard to be a believer, but since I am not happy with those explanations it is difficult to be a believer.
Exactly.
If someone is so dead centered on the scriptures being 100% correct, then there is no rationality left, you won't be able to convince them of anything regardless of how many proofs you throw at them. Even people of the same religion will probably struggle to get them to look at things differently even in a religious context.
But I think this is a common issue in humans in general and not only in religion, we like to think we are always right about things, and if someone questions that, it is not uncommon to defend our position to avoid having to admit that we were wrong, because that is interpreted by many as a weakness or something that is related to being stupid etc. But I think religious beliefs in some cases can further enhance this, because now it is not simply what you believe to be true about a specific topic, but potentially about God and one's whole worldview being questioned.