I have said this before, and will say it even in this company, because it's the truth. What Carico and Fatihah do with it is their affair.
I am fortunate to have found the loveliest, most kind, thoughtful, considerate woman in the world. It is my extreme good fortune that she loves me, and I know with everything that I am that she loves me, because she demonstrates it every day. There is nothing you could say that could persuade me otherwise, because it is my daily experience. Her love is like the air I breathe.
As a natural result, because it is natural to love the good, I love her completely and devotedly. I am completely committed to her in my every action and thought. I strive to consider her and be kind to her every day.
On those rare occasions when we have time to be physically intimate, we do only one thing. We give and receive love, I to her and she to me. Again, this is something I experience myself, so I know it to be true. If it were not a physical expression of my love for her, it would have no interest for me, and I would not do it.
That's the reality that you have to contend with, if you want to somehow persuade people that love is bad.