Let me firstly say I'm not here to defend the WT society, I will on the other hand defend JW doctrine. What you have written in your last response however is misleading on many matters which I will address.
The way you quoted the article and from what you said gives the impression the writer was talking about independent think in relation to researching other sources. This is not what the article was referring to. The article was comparing the free and independent thinking of the youthful hippie era to followers of Christ. Much of the context of the artilce was left out and is as follows:
AROUND the world today the cry is for more and still more freedom: freedom of thought, of speech and of action. In schools and universities the human philosophies expounded during the past fifty years are reaping a harvest of atheistic thinkers. And the effects of all this emphasis on individual self-determination are to be noted in the loud demands for independence by all kinds of splinter groups, social and political. Discipline and respect for authority are dwindling. Discontent is rife. Peace has been taken from the earth.
Having permitted youth to be indoctrinated with the idea that human thinking should not be restricted by a belief in a Supreme God, governing authorities are now faced with a rebel generation that is challenging social and moral principles and that insists on deciding for itself as between right and wrong. Young men and women, teen-agers, who frequently have no more than a superficial knowledge of the issues involved, join in strikes and protest marches as though they had fully examined all the facts and reached a mature decision. Open rebellion against adult rule is, in fact, very evident in our times.
How very different all this from the teaching the Bible and the words of Jesus Christ! (The Watchtower, 6/1/1966, page 323)
The article was not stating that people should not do independent research or thought.
Our core doctrine has been solid for the last 50-60 years, not a lot has changed. You also act as if change is bad, what religion of today has the humility to change a belief? I can think of none. What's more if I were change my beliefs according to your understanding this would be viewed as good by you.Yet if somehow, the JW faith as a whole changed its doctrine according to your understanding, by your standards this would be bad? Once again, change is good, it shows an en-devour and willingness to try an gain the full truth of the bible whatever it may be.
You contradict yourself, at one minute you state we change our beliefs like the wind, the next minute you're calling us proud? Tell me, when have you ever known a proud person to change his opinion on something? As you said this is from your experience, I assure you are the exception rather than the rule. I welcome disagreement and questions with my studies, as once they have explored every avenue they can then see that our teachings are solid.
The only proudness you may see in us is of our God Jehovah,
"so that it may be just as it is written: “The one who boasts, let him boast in Jehovah.” (1 Corinthians 1:31).
Notice what you say compared to how the article actually reads, (YOU)
"So anyone who reads the bible exclusively will come to the same “apostate doctrines”, (ARTICLE)
"From time to time, there have arisen from among the ranks of Jehovah's people those, who, like the original Satan, have adopted an independent, faultfinding attitude". You claim the article refers to anyone, and yet at the beginning of the paragraph it makes mention that its only from time to time, this is based on scripture where the apostles and Jesus refer to division among Gods people that would take place after their demise. Thus, how is it un-natural for JW's to think that these people, who are the ones causing divisions, are the person referred to in Matt 24:11-13, Acts 20:28-30 and 2 Peter 2:1, 22
Moreover we are constantly urged to "read the Bible daily" in personal study, this again goes against any notion that the society don't want us to study the bible.
The society make it their habit to only state the do's and don't regarding matters that go against clear bible principles, any other things they warn against are more like guidelines, even then they make it clear its down to each individuals conscience, so where the fault?
There lies your problem, if you can't see simple things as wrong, like celebrating a pagan holiday which in effect means your worshiping Satan or one of his demons then of course you're going to find a fault to justify you inability with keeping spiritual clean. Do you really think that to God or Satan, where a thousand years is but a day, see the difference in the following of pagan holiday just because the people celebrating it are ignorant and forgotten it originality. Do you really think Satan is sad and God happy that people are now still celebrating pagan holidays just because they've forgotten where is came from? Or perhaps is it the other way around.
The giving of wedding bands is a tradition/custom pagan people simply did, it is not in relation to any type of religious pagan ceremony or tradition from studies into the subject.