Is Masturbation Healthy for You?

[Renji]

It actually causes wrist ache. Did you know, too muc masturbation can cause gangreene and hands have been known to fall off.
There was a case recently where this woman masturbated every day, 5 times a day for 20 years. Her wrist got so inffected she had to have it amputated.
see story:
http://www.foxnews.com/wristamputee

Yeah, I actually red an article of almost the same topic before.

 

[Renji]

First year in college and no sex----Wow, have times really changed that much!!

Well do you think that a 16 yr old like me can raise a family in a good way? Try to read my signature.

 

[MSizer]

Wish nobody will think that I'm trying to push my beliefs.
But one of the beautiful things that our beloved Muhammed (s) came with, is encouraging young age marriages.

By the way, don't believe what you read that Islam allow child marriages. There are some sick people who try to give wrong image about Islam.

Hi Shia Islam, I'm not sure I understand what you are saying in this post? Would you mind explaining? (thanks - M.)

 

[Peggy Anne]

Oh, yes ! flail away ! Add some mental fantasies, and accept that dark desires might be trying to tell you something. During mastubatory fantasies, we can be all over the landscape, as they say. Be the villain. Be the hero ! engage a wild threesome. Do a cavewoman/man. Do Marie Antoinette, or some other fantasy figure. Have fun ! Be like the Bonobo chimps ! Of course, we can be grouchy afterward, but there is always next time. I like to have music, and soft colored lights. Humans need to let our hair down.

 

[MSizer]

Masturbation is never a solution for someone not yet in relationship… It may even lead to very worse situations..
A man could start with Masturbation, moves on toward watching porn, and ending up in dealing with pimps and prostitutes.

Those men who spend the years waiting for having that special one are just living an illusion…One needs to be realistic…




Sex doesn’t necessary means sexual intercourse. Couples with healthy relationship can please one another in all situations.

Oh My FSM! Are you trying to tell me that masturbation is a path to pimps and prostitutes via porn? You have got to be kidding! If you can make a stretch like the one between masturbation and prostitues, I can just as well make a stretch between Islam and terrorism. In fact, I happen to know a translator who helps immigrants find housing, and she told me that by far the most sexually disfunctional families of all the ones whe meets are those who come from countries where sexuality is suppressed by culture (read between the lines). The kicker is that they have the nerve to criticize westerners for their relative overt sexuality!

 

[Peggy Anne]

Call me sexually frustrated, but I don't really ever get the urge to masturbate. Is that abnormal?

Then, how can you call yourself frustrated if you don't know what you are missing ?

 

[DarkSun]

Then, how can you call yourself frustrated if you don't know what you are missing ?

Good point.

Let's just agree that Sigmund Freud needs to be stabbed. :yes:

 

[Shia Islam]

Mr Cheese

this guy is a virgin, I'm willing to bet $50 on it....

There is nothing wrong in being a Virgin, what is wrong is to involve in wrong doings…

MSizer

Hi Shia Islam, I'm not sure I understand what you are saying in this post? Would you mind explaining? (thanks - M.)


Oh My FSM! Are you trying to tell me that masturbation is a path to pimps and prostitutes via porn?

You have got to be kidding! If you can make a stretch like the one between masturbation and prostitues, ...I can just as well make a stretch between Islam and terrorism.

Hi MSizer,

First let me say that that I agree with you that that as in any religion, Islam includes some extreme schools, such as the Wahhabi school that fostered Al Qaeda. However Shia Islam has it’s organized institutions which has been started more than 1000 years (called Hawza) that prevent shia Islam from being misinterpreted.


There is a difference between countries where sexuality is suppressed by culture and countries where faith and belief in God judgment rationalize human actions.

Suppression of people can’t work, as there shall be a reaction from people to such an action.

In the same time having a materialistic culture, will lead to what we see nowadays of the culture of playboys, where guys compete in having the maximum possible numbers of what they call adventures. In such a culture young adults would have many many relations before starting their family at relatively late stage. This affect their future life, and lead to what we see nowadays, of increasing divorce rate, and people who choose not to consider marriage as an option.

Sex instinct like any other instinct needs to be fulfilled, however the culture of playboy show that materialistic ideologies that doesn’t believe in any aim of this life beyond this material world, shall only make a person live in an illusion.

With regard to what I said about young marriages, What I meant is that marriage at young as encouraged by the prophet (s) results in strong family ties, and prevents many social problems.

Good luck.

 

[ThereIsNoSpoon]

It all starts with an innocent session of spanking the monkey, and 10 years into the future you are running a notorious brothel down town, with each rub your morality deteriorates some more.

Think of your health!

Using your mouth is good for your stomach muscles.

 

[DarkSun]

It all starts with an innocent session of spanking the monkey, and 10 years into the future you are running a notorious brothel down town, with each rub your morality deteriorates some more.

Think of your health!

So if I masturbate I'll never have to go to a gym again for the rest of my life?

 

[Mr Cheese]

There is nothing wrong in being a Virgin, what is wrong is to involve in wrong doings…


.

A virgin telling others about sexual conduct is like a man complaining about menstrual cramps.....

or to put it more simply

It is like a vegetarian teaching steak cooking classes

 

[Shia Islam]

A virgin telling others about sexual conduct is like a man complaining about menstrual cramps.....

or to put it more simply

It is like a vegetarian teaching steak cooking classes

I did not say that you are right in your claim. I just don't consider it wrong.

 

[linwood]

Yeah, ofcourse you need to cheat with left once in a while. :cover:

When I do that I feel like I`m cheating.


Can`t take the guilt

 

[linwood]

With regard to what I said about young marriages, What I meant is that marriage at young as encouraged by the prophet (s) results in strong family ties, and prevents many social problems.

Actually your prophet is wrong.

Divorce rates for marriages before the age of 25 are 60% in the USA.

Young marriage causes broken families and social problems.

 

[keithnurse]

Rodney Dangerfield: "The first time I had sex I was scared, ooooh was I scared. I was all alone!"

 

[Shia Islam]

Actually your prophet is wrong.

Divorce rates for marriages before the age of 25 are 60% in the USA.

Young marriage causes broken families and social problems.

You are wrong.

There are CO-FACTORS.

If you have done your homework, you would have find the reasons for the social failure in the USA, where high Divorce rates is only one facet of this failure.

 

[McBell]

You are wrong.

There are CO-FACTORS.

If you have done your homework, you would have find the reasons for the social failure in the USA, where high Divorce rates is only one facet of this failure.

 

[Shia Islam]

I wish nobody will misunderstand what I said.

I think I used the wrong term "social failure"!

what I meant was that high divorce rate need to be linked with other social problem...
One can't make what is called as bivariate analysis and conclude that young age marriage leads to high divorce rate.

 

[linwood]

There are CO-FACTORS.

Name them and supply references for them

If you have done your homework, you would have find the reasons for the social failure in the USA, where high Divorce rates is only one facet of this failure.

I`d be willing to bet there is no one on this forum who has done more homework on this subject than I as I`ve studied it extensively for real world application.

 

[DallasApple]

I wish nobody will misunderstand what I said.

I think I used the wrong term "social failure"!

what I meant was that high divorce rate need to be linked with other social problem...
One can't make what is called as bivariate analysis and conclude that young age marriage leads to high divorce rate.

No..it doesnt need to be linked with other social problems at all.Its a matter of waiting untill you are mature enough to be committed to be married for 5 or 6 decades to the same person. And the difference between an 18 year old and a 25 year old is a lot more in most cases than 5 or 7 years..

Of course Im one of those that doesnt think someone should have to live in misery for life for making a life long decision that they cant or dont want to honor that they made at 18 or 20 years old.

Love

Dallas