LilChrist said:
Is it a good thing when the girl is left alone with a six month old child in her arms, then finds out that she has HIV? Is it a good thing when a guy can't get enough of it and resorts to rape?
Is it a good thing when a wife is left alone with a 6 month old child in her arms, that she finds out that she has HIV? Is it a good thing when a husband can`t get enough of it and resorts to rape?
Marriage has no bearing on these things
That's how many rapists start out. A little dabble here and there, then more and more demanding...
I`d like to see the evidence you have for pre-marital sex creating rapists.
Or is that something your brother learned in sex-ed too?
You created your morals? Really?
Yes
No thing or person around you effected your decision?
I don`t recall implying that.
Everything and everyone I`ve ever spent time with has had some impact on my ethical outlook but I chose what I believe is right and what I believe is wrong.
It isn`t easy but at least I truly understand why I believe what I do.
God had no say in how you were raised, who raised you, what effects your decisions on what to believe?
Nope.
My mother.
The study of the impact of my actions and or potential actions on the world around me.
Your parents pulled a fast one on God by raising you and effecting what you believed, morally?
Apparently, if one believes God exists then I suppose she did to an extent.
Alot of what he condoned and directly ordered does not meet my moral standards.
Ever heard of the sermon on the mount?
I`ve read it once or twice or twenty times.
The morals that no human could ever live up to, were preached about by a historically-proven perfect man. That perfect man, Jesus, claimed to be God.
Could you cite some falisfiable research that has concluded Jesus was a historically perfect proven man?
Did they cover that in your brothers sex-ed class too?
Where did Jesus claim to be God?
What in particular are you talking about in Exodus? That's a pretty big book.
The whole book pretty much...most of Genesis too would be good for starters.
True, it doesn't. But you don't have to worry about what people will think, or whether your boyfriend will still like you. And there's nothing magical about contraceptives.
I couldn`t care less what people think.
My boyfriend will always love me..I have faith.
I never implied there was anything magical about contraceptives.
Because not many couples have abstained before marriage.
No actually these wives are getting it from their husbands during their marraige.
That was the point I was trying to make.
Did you read any of that stuff I posted?
Really? I can name about a hundred people right off the bat that have abstained and are either happily married or happily single.
Thats about as authorative as heresay from your brothers sex-ed class.
But the side effects won't be nearly as bad, since there is hopefully a loving devotion between the couple and they can bear it together.
Lets hope.
Emotional misunderstanding, meaning the girl usually thinks the guy really likes her for her, not her body, which pre-marital sex often encourages the opposite.
Yes, unless she`s been directly lied to that is her misunderstanding.
Her own fault.
Teach your daughters well and that won`t happen.
Teaching your daughters they are nothing more than a plaything for men is what encourages the opposite not pre-marital sex.
Fill their heads with the fantasy of the knight in white armor sweeping them away to marital bliss foir the rest of their lives and watch the divorce rates soar.
Usually it's the guy that's "rational thinker" though. It's a fact that woman rely more on emotions than guys do. Guys think more logically, girls more emotionally, even though they process things quicker.
Again, that has to do with how you teach your daughters to think.
It's easier to trust a virgin spouse. According to polls, more people want a virgin spouse than a non-virgin.
Where might I find these polls?
Not that it matters , a plea to popularity is hardly evidence of the truth.
Someone (I believe it was PT Barnum) once said..
"You can never underestimate the ignorance of the American public"
Something my brother learned in sex ed, can't tell you where they came from.
Is your brother in an "abstinence only" sex-ed program?
What does that have to do with abstinance?
It has nothing to do with abstinence.
You said those who wait until they marry to have sex have marraiges that last longer.
I disagreed and told you that those who marry early in life have higher divorce rates.
I believe it directly applies to the topic unless your asserting that those who wait for sex do so until they are in their thirties.
That didn't have anything to do with scripture. My "misinformation" could in no way make a person doubt scripture.
That has yet to be seen.
