Jesus clearly said he came to turn people against one another, that even if your spouse or child didn't share your believe in him that you should shun them. Doesn't sound very loving to me. Jesus spoke of the rich man who went to hell for not being a generous person in life and wishing he had been a better person while suffering in flames. Sounds like a torture dungeon to me. I've read the bible, not an expert on it, but I don't do mental gymnastics to twist it to mean things it doesn't. Not that it really matters, it's just ancient mythology anyways. I don't see anything that makes the bible characters anymore likely to exist than characters from other religions.
No, Jesus did Not teach shun un-believing family, but that family would oppose one following Jesus.
Please note Jesus' words at Matthew 10:21-22. No mention of shunning.
Please keep in mind Luke 16:14-31 is a parable or an illustrative story and Not a real happening.
The King James Bible translated into English the word Gehenna into the English word as hellfire.
Gehenna was just a garbage pit where things were destroyed forever and Not kept burning forever.
So, Gehenna is a fitting word for ' destruction ' such as the wicked will be destroyed forever as per Psalms 92:7.
So, it is false clergy teachings that put the flames in biblical hell.
The Bible's hell is simply mankind's temporary grave until Resurrection Day.
Resurrection Day meaning Jesus' coming millennium-long day of governing over Earth.
Then, according to Revelation 22:2 mankind will see the return of the Genesis ' tree of life ' for the healing of earth's nations. That is why we are all invited to pray the invitation of Revelation 22:20 for Jesus to come!
Come and usher in global Peace on Earth among persons of goodwill besides healing for earth's nations.