1. There are specific and published definitions of what religion is.
"8. Preaching/Proselytizing
... Stating opinions as a definitive matter of fact (i.e., without "I believe/feel/think" language, and/or without references) may be moderated as preaching."
2. This is not the correct definition of proselytizing. I can show you a video of what proselytizing looks like. What I did was state a fact. And there
are facts.
That's proselytizing. Telling people to believe in
your religion. Did I proselytize? Nah, the religion I talked about was clearly a complete joke. My actual point was that in order to be a religion, there needs to be more to it. You can make up crimes that I'm guilty of all you want, but at least bother to understand whether what you're saying is factual.
3. Back to #1. What is religion? It literally means to "reconnect". The theory is that human beings are out of touch with some specific truth, and "only this religion" can solve whatever that truth is. It also refers to the sense of community and connectedness from gathering together as part of common group. In the book
God Is Not One: The Eight Rival Religions That Run The World, the premise of the book is that each religion picks a specific issue that they believe is troubling the world, and proposes a solution. This is what I mean by "overarching worldview". As in, "How does my religion see the world at large, what is it that I think needs to change." I have my own religion, listed in my profile. I know personally how hard it is to start a religion, and I am sad to say that in terms of the key part, I've failed. I have found myself unable to significantly change what I see as wrong.
4. So, what do you need to be a religion? You need at least about three or four of these. Not all religions include all of these, but all include at least some of these. If not, you have a philosophy, or a belief.
Religion: Meaning, Definitions and Components of Religion
Components or Basic elements of Religion:
According to Anderson and Parker religion mainly consists of four primary components such as:
(1) Belief in Supernatural Power:
Every religion believes in some supernatural power i.e. powers outside of man and the present world. The supernatural powers are believed to influence human life and conditions.
(2) Man’s adjustment to Supernatural Powers:
It is another component of religion. As man is dependent on these supernatural powers hence he must adjust himself to the powers. As a result every religion provides for some external acts or rituals such as prayer; Kirtans Utterance of hymns etc. Non-performance of these rituals regarded as sinful.
(3) Acts defined as Sinful:
It is another component of religion. Every religion defines some acts as sacred and some other as sinful which suppose to destroy the harmonious relationships between man and god.
(4) Method of Salvation:
It is another component of religion. Man needs some method by which he can attain salvation or Nirvana or by which harmony between man and god will be re-established by the removal of guilt or bondage. Because every religion consider salvation as the ultimate aim of life. But besides the above components religion may have some other components which are as follows.
(5) Belief in some sacred things:
Every religion believes on some holy or sacred things which constitute the centre of religion. These sacred or holy things are symbolic. But this belief based on faith. For example, Cow is sacred for Hindus.
(6) Procedure of Worship:
It is another component of religion. Every religion has its own specific procedure of worshipping. The follower of religion worship the supernatural power either in the form of a statute or in a formless manner.
(7) Place of Worship:
Every religion has its own definite place of worship in which its followers offer their prayer to the supernatural power.
For example Hindu Worship in a Temple.
Usually you have followers too. Some religions don't have holy writings. Some don't have organized worship. Some don't believe in deities. It's a loose concept, I wasn't saying that is was something super-rigid like you apparently think. But people humoring the OP by saying three rules is more than most religions have are lying to themselves and to them.
A religion does have more to it. There are many many ideas on exactly what, but if that were all it took, anyone could make a religion in an afternoon. It usually takes years to codify a religion.
Here's what the dictionary says:
religion
noun
1. the belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power, especially a personal God or gods.
It doesn't say ANYTHING like what you just said.
That is an extremely poor definition. Taoism and Buddhism don't formally worship gods. Neither does Confucianism. And even that definition didn't say "a series of rules that I sorta kinda thought about, without thinking about whether I even have an opinion on religion at all." Confucianism, which is actually closest to the same mindset (upright behavior, obedience to external authority, non-conflict with leadership) still has areas of "worship", procedures or customs, and "sinful" (wrong) actions as well as means of salvation (in this case, following the proper rules of hierarchy and deference to authority).
What I was saying was not preaching, but rather telling them that this wouldn't be enough to even be distinct from Confucianism.
At the very least, no thought at all is given to:
1. What happens to people who don't follow laws?
2. Given (ambiguous moral situation) what would you decide is unselfish behavior?
3. Are there deities? What about supernatural events? What do you believe about an afterlife?
None of this sort of thing is addressed, so it winds up feeling incomplete.
The difference between preaching/proselytizing and simply saying "do more" is just that. I do not care what you believe. But spend more time and effort on it, or no, not enough to be "acceptable" as religion.