madhatter85
Transhumanist
Honestly, i know of many parents whos children fell away from the church and they in no way shun them, all they do is encourage them and help them in any ways they can.
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Yeah, as I said, the Mormons I've known have been great people. I don't know where the stories come from -- they are out there, unfortunately.
i didn't mean to sound as if i was arguing if i did. I realize that alot of peopel have stories about a grean number of demographics, none of which are true.
happy now beckysoup?
notice how i said "alot" i did not say all, read my posts more carefully next time.
i said, i edited my post, note my reasons above. get back on topic
Will you two get a room???
I have personally known dozens upon dozens of ex-Mormons. In my experience, none of them have been shunned by their families. That said, I'm sure it is difficult for some people to leave the Church, but that's not because they fear being shunned. It would be far more likely that they would hesitate to leave because they know their family members would be devastated by the news. If they are close to their families, they may be concerned about hurting those they love. Whether or not that is a legitimate fear, I know from personal experience that however heartbroken families may be over a son, daughter, sibling, etc. who decides to leave the Church, the idea of shunning that family member simply wouldn't enter the minds of most Latter-day Saints.I lived in a community that had a high percentage of Mormons. i knew quite a few Mormons and ex-Mormons, too. I was told many stories of how difficult it was for them to leave Mormonism, because their families shunned them.
Well, to that, I'd have to say that this lady had a hell of an imagination.One lady told me that she used to be a social services worker in Utah. Every August, when all the men left for their hunting trips, her office would have to hire extra help. Their office was inundated with women and children who came in to file for divorce and leave the country, where their husbands couldn't find them and drag them back. She told me that the percentage of family abuse is higher in Utah than the national average, and that many of the women she helped left to escape such abuse, and the hunting parties that brought them back against their will.
I don't know Soj, that raises an interesting point. Can a prophet be a prophet just for some people? If a prophet tells an eternal truth, wouldn't that be a truth for everyone everywhere?Some people want to villify Mormons -- make them less than human. Some want to raise them to an almost superhuman condition. Some challenge Mormon's statements and stances by holding them to a higher standard than the challenger holds him/herself to.
Why can't everyone realize that Mormons are human, like everyone else, and that they are subject to human greatness and human folly, just like everyone else?
It really makes me no nevermind that they believe Joseph Smith was a prophet. I don't believe that he was...but then...I'm not a Mormon. I respect that belief, and their right to believe it, even if I don't agree with it. But for them, it's truth and should be allowed into the mix of debate.
I don't know Soj, that raises an interesting point. Can a prophet be a prophet just for some people? If a prophet tells an eternal truth, wouldn't that be a truth for everyone everywhere?
A related question, can a prophet be a prophet if he tells some eternal truth, but is very wrong about other things?
And despite the fact that many of them became his enemies, not a single one of the eleven who saw and held the plates from which the Book of Mormon was translated ever denied that their experience. They may have had their disagreements with Joseph Smith, but they never recanted the statements that appear in the front of the Book of Mormon
Honestly, your assessment of what is and isn't nonsense is seriously flawed. The BoM, for example, is nonsense. Claiming that Joseph Smith had enemies and that the Mormon Church has enemies is not nonsense.Honestly, where do you get this nonsense from anyway?
Dozens. The Church has made enemies of its apostates from the beginning, you and others here have made frequent references to Joseph Smith's ex-friends as enemies.How many people do you know who have "abandoned Mormonism" and how has the Church made enemies of them.
Why? I'd be more than happy - but you wouldn't believe them anyway.Let's have some specifics.
Was that supposed to be a link? If so, it didn't work.
Uh oh, sounds like somebunny got a little spanking :biglaugh:Katz: !Fluffy! hangs around CARM now. I'm sure it's good for his/her ego.
You mean C.hristians A.cting R.eal M.oronic?
Not all stories about people leaving the LDS Church are false, or did you think they were all liars?
Some people want to villify Mormons -- make them less than human. Some want to raise them to an almost superhuman condition. Some challenge Mormon's statements and stances by holding them to a higher standard than the challenger holds him/herself to.
Why can't everyone realize that Mormons are human, like everyone else, and that they are subject to human greatness and human folly, just like everyone else?
It really makes me no nevermind that they believe Joseph Smith was a prophet. I don't believe that he was...but then...I'm not a Mormon. I respect that belief, and their right to believe it, even if I don't agree with it. But for them, it's truth and should be allowed into the mix of debate.
Isn't there at lest one other choice, a con artist? How bout combination of con artist and nutjob--someone who starts out as a con and then comes to believe his own spiel? I think that's what many religious leaders are.very good question. No, a person who claims to be a prophet is one of two things, A madman (someone on par which whome he thinks of himself as a poached egg), or a true prophet of God.
You cannot say that Joseph smith was a "great moral teacher" Either he was a True Prophet or he was a madman or worse. there is no middle ground. Yes it sounds alot like sudden death, but the same is said for Jesus Christ, He was either the Son of God, the savior of the world, or he wasn't and just a lunatic, or worse.
Why? because of the claims, and because of the seriousness of the allegations, It has to do with the eternal welfare of our souls.