IANS wrote: "No objective moral standards are possible or needed."
You are correct in living your life! You can be a juror in a rape case and convict a rapist because you "currently feel" rape is wrong.
Rape IS wrong (the IS represents an absolute). So go ahead, and please tell all of us reading these posts why rape isn't always, objectively, wrong.
Rape is wrong to me, but not objectively wrong. Even if humankind were unanimous in that judgment, there is no objective moral standard to refer to - nothing to look at with the eye, telescope,or microscope - only opinions, and they are subjective.
We can only go to one another, canvas for opinions, and decide by consensus which activities are moral or not.
If you're going to offer up this god as a moral exemplar, then it is fit for moral judgment. You can't have it both ways: "Mine is a good god, but when he seems cruel, you have to stop judging Him until we have another beautiful day, at which time you may begin judging, thanking, and praising Him again."
The God of the Old Testament, however, didn't disapprove of rape. If His standards are objectively real to you, then I think you have to go with the god.