Sorry for the delay, I have been really busy for a couple of days.
Can I ask you why you left them? Perhaps we have something in common?
I left primarily because the God described in the Christian scriptures is cruel and petty.
My personal experiences of the Divine had led me to believe that God was kinder and more loving than that God.
...I am sure we have something in common though, other than our humanity of course.
I left the Anglican Church over 40 years ago. I have relatives and acquaintances who are still in the church. Not much has changed apparently. Same old beliefs and the same inept approach to preaching. Their outreach programs attempt to assist the poor but hand to mouth charity was never advocated by Jesus. It just doesn't work. As a Jew, the law provided for the poor by allowing them to glean in the fields where the outer perimeter was left unharvested so that the poor could work to gain their food.
I must admit that I am ignorant as to what the Anglican church is even like, so I can make no real comment about that.
I am not opposed to the idea of having those crops for the poor to harvest. Why not do that now?
Every outreach program that was put in place to help drug and alcohol addicted people was abused. Very few are helped to free themselves of their addictions and they will just continue to come for the free handouts. The people in the church who run the programs are becoming somewhat jaded because of the failure of their efforts to bring real change to people's lives
Well, there definitely is room for improvement when it comes to charities.
I would suggest that
more time should be spent looking at how they can be improved.
Perhaps work of some measure should be required as they are able to encourage personal growth?
The minister of the Anglican Church where I live at present has recently been appointed to a government position (as chaplain) where he will be well paid. He left his church without a minister and not a few were upset about it.
That's unfortunate. Apparently he is very inconsiderate at the least.
It still does not mean that this is the case in all of Christianity.
I was a part of a church plant years ago where my pastor left a lucrative career to start the church.
He is one of the most honest and humble people I have ever met.
JW's do not run charity programs. Rather we help people on a personal level. We don't want "rice Christians"...those who come for the handouts and not for the spiritual instruction. All who are baptised as brothers and sisters in our congregations are under the same requirements. We know what God expects from us and we give our best to him as our circumstances allow. We don't expect handouts.
How is this help offered (without necessarily giving specific detail)?
I disagree that charity does not work. It has helped me in the past.
I have seen it help others.
There is always the problem of those who would take advantage, but this means to me that we should look for ways
to counter these attempts at taking advantage, not scrap charity entirely.
Paul's instruction at 2 Thessalonians 3:6-8, 10 gives us a standard...."Now we command you, brothers, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you keep away from any brother who is walking in idleness and not in accord with the tradition that you received from us. For you yourselves know how you ought to imitate us, because we were not idle when we were with you, nor did we eat anyone's bread without paying for it, but with toil and labor we worked night and day, that we might not be a burden to any of you......For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat." (ESV)
And I do see some merit in this.
If someone is able to, they should repay a kindness (such as the giving of food) in some way.
This especially makes sense in the context it was likely intended.
Families who likely only had enough food for themselves would
need someone to work
for their food. In the first world, our ludicrous abundance does not reflect this in the same exact way (although there certainly are poor, of which I am a part).
Jesus also said "you received free, give free"....I don't see that in the churches.
What exactly do you mean here? Regarding the payment of church workers?
Most I have known are only payed enough to live.
I thought it was a bit much myself. The minister never bothered to call personally to see if he could be of any spiritual help to us as a family but always expected the envelope to be in the plate on Sunday.
It sounds to me like this is a reflection on the character of this particular minister.
It is a stretch to apply this indiscriminately to all of "Christendom" as a whole.
My old pastor still sends me cards on my birthday (which I know you don't celebrate, but it is important to me).
The pastors would call, they offered to sit down and talk with you, you could pull them aside on Sunday to ask questions, they would visit you in the hospital...they were just good people.
The one thing that struck me about JW's is that no one is paid. The elders give of their time voluntarily to care for the needs of the congregation. There are no fees charged for weddings or funerals, and we do not have infant baptisms.
And that is noble, if one can manage to live that way...I will say that my old pastors regularly gave of their free time.
One of them would say sometimes that it was an on-call job, and that he needed to be ready to be there for people all the time.
I am glad to here about the lack of charges for those services, and I believe that is as it should be.
What did you find so difficult to accept? I never really found much of a message in church at all......nothing that made any sense anyway.
Only JW's gave me Bible based answers to all my questions.
I left because I could not accept that the Bible needed to be upheld at the cost of my critical thinking, and because the God
of the Christian scriptures is harsh and petty.
I do not want or need Bible-based answers, though I respect that others find their purpose there.
I actually
got all of my questions answered right from the Bible. I was not satisfied.
What do you believe about life and the future now?
I believe that all of life is sacred, and inherently good, and that the future is a mystery.
Perhaps it can be glimpsed in part (I'm still uncertain) it can certainly be guessed at, but that's about it...
To be more philosophical about it, I don't technically believe that the future actually exists.
There is only the present. The future is only the coming present.
Peace to you.