What happens when a narcissist loses? Expect "rage" and "terror," psychologists warn
"A truly significant loss… may trigger not only a reign of terror but destruction without limit," one expert says
By MATTHEW ROZSA
OCTOBER 28, 2020 11:00PM (UTC)
"They will just stand there, poignantly in their Superman pajamas and say NO, I am NOT going to bed, and drop to the ground and scream," she explained. "Plan on an adult version of that. As is often the case when a difficult personality style like this faces disappointment we tend to see a
cascade of reactions – oppositionality, denial, rage, despair, paranoia, more rage, entitlement, victimhood, and vindictiveness."
The next question, then, is what Trump could actually do in his vindictive rage to punish an America which he may believe has consigned him to "loser" status. (Indeed,
one-term presidents are usually regarded as failures — and Trump would be the first one-termer in 28 years). As political activist and former Green Party presidential candidate
Ralph Nader wrote in August, Trump could pressure the Justice Department to issue bogus subpoenas in order to punish his critics and opponents, pull out of contracts with businesses and individuals who he feels wronged him,
refuse to work with Biden's transition team in handing over power and (of course) "intensify the use of the Justice Department and his personal lawyers to
challenge in every frivolous, obstructive way the results of the election in selected states, no matter what the margin of his defeat."
Trump could also pick winners and losers in terms of who receives federal
help during the pandemic and
recession, helping those who sided with him and exacting vengeance against those who did not.
He could egg on his supporters into committing acts of violence or, at the very least, do everything in his power to
make sure they do not accept the legitimacy of a Biden presidency. He could
pressure the Federal Reserve to try to drive up interest rates and stop supporting the stock and corporate bond markets, actions that would tank the American economy (and which Trump would most likely attempt to blame on Biden).
Most ominous of all, a narcissist like Trump could
simply refuse to leave office when his term ends on January 20, 2021.