I can understand and see why the idea of God can be a positive influence for some people.
If you want my opinion on the matter, I think most people's idea of God - especially the anthropomorphised ones - is just the personification of hope through adversity. Think about it.
The story of (the Christian) God is all about battling evil (adversity) and that if we wait (hope) for our Messiah (something/someone to save us...maybe save ourselves), we can overcome and live in Heaven (happiness).
The act of prayer is an act that helps us overcome adversity and can be a powerful psychological tool in helping us cope. I know. It has helped me through some of the toughest times in my life (namely, my father's death when I was young).
But it's symbolism. We are the ones that overcome the adversity. We are the ones that rely on ourselves to get us through the thick of it all. On occasion, we rely on others. I think that's what life is all about. We overcome difficulty to live better lives. Not where we are personally happy necessarily, but one where we can contribute to the happiness of others. A child struggles with math homework, but eventually learns how to add and subtract and multiply and divide, making his life a lot easier. A teen lives with an abusive, alcoholic father, and grows up to teach other teens how to overcome. We erupt in arguments with our friends and loved ones, only to realize what is really important. I think God for most people is this basic notion with "fluff" added to it.
If that's the kind of God you mean (and that's what I'm sort of getting), I believe in the symbol of that God. I don't believe in that God as a physical being. I don't think that God actually exists. But I think what it represents very much exists.
This is very well stated, and clearly understood. You're a good writer. And I agree mostly with the way you have encapsulated it. "God" is a kind of "X-factor" that we use to find wisdom, strength and courage within ourselves that we either didn't have, or didn't know we had. And this is it's real gift. The idea of "God" combined with the phenomena of 'gestalt' can change us to an amazing degree and sometimes in an almost instantaneous fashion. But it's a very difficult set of ideas to comprehend, and use.
As an alcoholic I came finally to understand that I had lost all control over my drinking. That's what being an alcoholic means - this loss of control. I had also reached the point in my drinking where it had become chronic, which means that it was destroying both my health and my life. I couldn't work. I couldn't maintain relationships. I couldn't do anything I set myself to do because I'd always end up drunk, instead. And I had tried with all my might to overcome this addiction with absolutely zero success. The alcoholism won every fight I waged with it, every single time.
I realized that I was hopelessly condemned to die a drunk because I could not do what I would have to do to get out of this trap. And no one else could do it for me. The full realization of this finally washed over me one morning and broke me, as a person.
It was at this time that I called Alcoholics Anonymous. I don't really even know why I did that, because I did not believe they could help me. I was certain that I was doomed. Yet I felt like I had to do SOMETHING, and I simply couldn't think of anything else.
I started to go to AA meetings every day, hoping that at least if I was sitting in an AA meeting, I wouldn't be drinking while I was there. And immediately they began talking about a set of steps that I could take that could get me and keep me sober. But I didn't believe them because the one true thing I had finally gotten into my head was that being addicted to alcohol meant that I was powerless over my drinking. And they agreed. Yet they kept telling me that although I could not stop drinking by my own will, that I could stop with the help of a "higher power". But I wasn't much of a god-believer, and I didn't understand what they meant, or how such a thing could work, so they just told me to think of the group as my "higher power". After all, the group was able to stay sober, and that was more than I could do. So if nothing else, they were a power greater than me in that sense. And then they told me that if I wanted what they had, then to do what they did to get it. Follow the steps.
That was in January of '93 and I have not had a drink since. Somehow, this idea of a "higher power" had given me the strength I needed to stop drinking, that I'm certain I did not possess, before. And by rightly defining that "higher power" (relative to the problem at hand) it was able to give me the courage and wisdom of all those who had gone before me and through them the ability to completely change myself, and my life.
I was a hard core chronic drunk, so it took me a long time shed all the BS that had accumulated in my head due to the disease, and to finally become myself, and to be happy with that. But it did happen, and I don't believe any other method could have worked. I'm still amazed that any method worked.
The idea of God gave me a way to see hope when all logic and reason led to was complete hopelessness. True addiction is logically hopeless. Some folks maybe could have gotten out of that trap using the magical thinking of over-simplistic religion (God will give me a miracle), but I was not capable of believing in that, and I'm still not.
And yet in a way, God DID give me a miracle. God did for me what I couldn't do for myself, and all that was asked of me was to stop trying to do it myself. All I was asked to do was relax, trust in a power greater than myself, and follow the path of those who had walked out of the trap before me.
If you don't know its properties, how can you reason that it exists?
The same way I reason that love exists. Or that art exists. These have 'properties', but their properties are always changing and difficult to describe. Their properties are subjective experience. Ask someone to describe love in a way that you can know it exists. They won't likely be able to do it. But this certainly doesn't make love unreal. Nor does it make love insignificant.
I understand what you mean. In a sort of trivial example, I can relate. As a kid, I watched the Simpsons and thought it was a funny show. I laughed.
Years later, I caught some re-runs and got more of the jokes and laughed even more. I thought it was a great show.
Years after that, after knowing more of history and having a lot more experience, I was able to draw parallels between the characters and stories of The Simpsons to real historical events and see Groening's political satire in it. I understood it on a completely different level. On a level that comes with experience and knowledge.
The same is true for books I've read. Some books are best read a second time.
But you also have to keep in mind your experiences lead you to your views. And different experience may lead to different views. My experience has shown me that religion is man-made and God probably as well. While it is true this may change with time, I remain unconvinced.
Yes, we are entrapped by our own limited experiences and expectations. We can't be expected to understand that which we have no experience of. But that's all the more reason to try and remain open-minded.