All right, after reading through all the posts linked, I want to make a few observations. (I hope that is not in violation of the forums rules -- bringing back old threads)
Firstly, I am constantly amazed at how persons following Abrahamic religions can view YHWH of the Old Testament as a good God. YHWH is an evil, closed-minded, control freak, who demands strict obedience or else he will smite you. He led the Israelis into countless slaughters against those who have opposed his will, even going as far as ordering the deaths of the children and animals of those who dared to oppose him. He punishes a servant for merely trying to stop His Holy Ark from falling over. You get the idea. (I have issues with YHWH, being an ex-Christian, and I tend to rant. -- My apologies)
From what I gather Lucifer disobeyed God and took the form of a Serpent to free Adam and Eve from their prison of ignorance. Lucifer risked everything to enlighten mankind - very admirable. Maybe Lucifer wanted to wear his hair a different way or in a different colour than all the other angels. If Lucifer represents individuality with freedom while remaining "morally righteous," I have to admire his character, even if I do not believe he exists.
Creativity, individuality, knowledge are all things I greatly admire. Respect others rights to individuality, to freedom. Do not infringe upon these rights. If a guy wants to kiss another guy, what is that to you? How will it hurt your ability to exercise your own free rights. How will it restrict you from kissing however you want?