A HUGE deal is made about a very small number of religious people, from a smaller faction of one major religion, that go around proselytizing their beliefs. While the billions of other theists and many other religions that do not, go completely ignored.[/quote[
Are you referring to how a critical thinker will address the specific claims made by a specific believer? This is proper debate. But you are incorrect, critical thinkers often addrss the basic assumptions of all theists when debating a specifci person. Most believers don;t come to their own conclusions via their own thinking, they have adopted a dogma that they have decided is true and then try to claim it is truth in debates, including you. You tend to be very cautious and vague in your claims, which is a strategy many theists have learned to do. Even this doesn't work because it is the basic assumption that a supernatural exists, usually a God or higher power, isn't anything that is evidenced.
You might come back with "we have evidence, you atheists just don't accept it". No we don't, because the evidence that theists claim is tyically subjective and heavy with assumptions. For example someone claimed that seeing a sunset is proof of God. No it isn't, it proves our planet is rotating and circles a star. The conclusion that this indicates a God is from the social influence the believer picked up subconsciously and now can't separate an observation from religious belief. This is how religion works in the mind, it takes over thinking like a virus, and the believer can't, or won't, separate these learned assumptions from observation and thinking.
Meanwhile, an increasing number of atheists that are also strongly anti-religious are constantly denigrating and attacking all religion and all religious people. it's quite an ironic accusation for atheists to be complaining about evangelism.
Even you agree with pushing back on Christian extremism as I have read you post criticism of the decisions the Supreme Court has made about abortion rights. I've seen your posts critical of heavily religious republicans and their intentions to impose religious ideas onto America. So religiously you are anti-atheist, but politically you have a lot in common with atheists. So you have that wave to surf and try not to crash.