So the first post doesn't live up to the second one.
Now I am going to play your game of not normal. I don't really mean it, but I will show you how it works when applied to you.
You have a disorder, because you don't reflect over that you think, when you make your rule about thinking and reality. Therefore you need medical treatment to become normal.
Do you understand now the problem with not normal. It has no objective real true referent, it is a case of how a given person think.
And that can be turned aganist you, because I think you are not normal, and thus that is in reality as a real thing with truth independet of my thoughts and feelings. The problem is that it is not, just as you think they are misguided.