The thing is, Alceste, men have gone to some of those women's programs for help and have gotten turned away and why? Because they were men. This is exactly what I was talking about...gender biases.
Certain programs and organizations are exclusively "women only". There are "Victim's shelters" where if a man shows up he is automatically assumed to be one of the residents' abusers, and even if affirmed he's not, they still won't take him because the shelter is for only women. Crisis centers and victim's counseling center around women, abuse shelters set up for just women, and more.
Now, like I said, while these things are great and wonderful to now have, why must they still have the caveat of just being for women on them as the overwhelming majority still do? Is it no wonder then, that sometimes that men, where they can't get certain places to open for them, must try to start places from scratch on their own? And why must this effort be so apparently offensive to some women's rights activists? Are the men asking for anything to be taken away from the women? No. They are merely wanting it to finally be acknowledged that they have some issues as well that they could use some help and support with. Perhaps they are not all the privileged males that some seem to perceive them to be.
Oh, and so what if those things weren't there before? Are you trying to claim that since those programs came about from women's rights activism that they should have full claim and control over who gets to use them? Isn't it enough that the strides were made? Were there no men involved in the movement? Did no men support the movement? I think there were. So why is it so hard to support men now in theirs?
Eventually, one would hope, by seeing that there are programs out there, perhaps doing the same things, that they could come together, work jointly, and in time merge. No longer even needing or seeing two separate women's rights and men's right movements, but human rights. Truly seeing a gender equality movement where we can work in tandem. However as long as we are playing tug of war instead of building each other up...that's never going to happen.