Yes, I can agree with that. What is good or bad behavior is related to how that behavior causes harm or benefit to the overall well-being -in the broadest sense- of sentient creatures and / or groups / societies.
Cool. So, now that we agree on a basic standard... tell me: why do you need gods or messengers to come to moral judgements? Seems to me that this basic simple definition provides you with all the required tools for moral reasoning.
So what's missing in your opinion? And how does claiming it, whatever it is, comes from a god, solve anything - whatever it is that needs solving in your opinion?
So do you think there is something morally wrong with a person being unhappy?
Do you connect psychological suffering with morality? Is a depressed person immoral because they suffer?
Yes, psychological suffering is suffering. And you already agreed that how things affect suffering / well-being ultimately determines if those things are moral or immoral.
So, if you engage in an action, say cheating, and the result of which is your wife being really hurt and unhappy and betrayed, then your act of cheating was immoral for that reason.
Your actions raised suffering on innocent victims.
And no, the depressed person is not immoral because he is depressed
However, if the depression is the result of intense bullying at school or work for example, then the bullies' bullying was immoral.
I don't need to refer to them to come to these conclusions.
Then why are they part of the topic?
No, I do not agree with:
Well-being = good
suffering = bad
Not only is that overly simplistic, it is saying that a person is 'bad' because they are suffering and 'good' because they are happy, and I do not believe happiness and suffering have anything to do with morality.
I have a hard time taking you seriously here tbh. I'm having problems with accepting this could be misunderstood to this level.
I'm obviously not saying that. I'm obviously saying that ultimately, actions that result in higher well-being are good while actions that result in higher suffering are bad. Simplistically and generally speaking, off course.
Emotional states etc aren't moral or immoral.
Behavior is moral or immoral. Actions.
Religion is not required to know that a person causing harm to another person is always wrong, but that has been set down by religion throughout the ages.
That doesn't make sense and is self-contradictory.
Either it's required or it isn't. Make up your mind.
And do you really believe that people had to be told that suffering and harm, aren't desirable emotional and physical states to shoot for?
Yes, it would still be immoral because that was set down in the Law of God.
So when you agreed before to the statement that the difference in moral and immoral / good and bad / right and wrong, is in how it affects well-being and suffering... What's that about?
Apparently it's more like "
that's how it works unless god says otherwise".
So you have no moral reasoning whatsoever to get to the point of saying "and that's why adultery is always immoral", but you are going to go ahead and say it's immoral anyway because a perceived authority says so.
Why?
So if the authority says genocide is okay, then genocide is okay?
Sure, everyone has standards, but they are all different, unless they follow the standards of a religion.
The standard I presented is an objective one.
There is no disagreement about what constitutes well-being and what constitutes suffering.
It's pretty straightforward.
Ironically, it's
you who's bringing "special" and, from my pov, arbitrary standards into it... And it's even a standard that doesn't allow for critical thinking or proper moral reasoning. No. Instead, it's just "BECAUSE GOD SAYS SO. PERIOD!!!". We are expected to just accept it and that's final.
There's no argument for it. There's no way to get from A to B rationally. There is only the assertion of authority.
Meanwhile actual reasoning using the actually objective standard, concludes the opposite.
The secular standard of good and bad was derived from the religious standard
No.
The religious standard is an assertion of authority.
The secular standard explicitly rejects assertions of authority.
The reasoning behind the religious standard is "because says so".
With the secular standard, you are actually expected to make your case using actual reasoning. When you claim something is immoral, you actually have to argue why it is so. What harm is inflicted, what suffering is caused. WHY is it immoral. And assertions from authority are not allowed here. You require an actual reasoned reason.