The evidence is shown in the frequency of shared genes across all life. If you are only looking at a small population you can find out who was the father or mother of whom by the genes that those individuals have. One will find greater and greater differences between populations as their degree of relatedness drops. But it is still there. You share genes with a banana. Does that make you a banana? Of course not. But it is evidence that you had a common ancestor.
Again that is evidence for evolution. It is undeniable until it is refuted. And refusing to understand is not a refutation. Do your remember the definition of evidence:
Scientific evidence is
evidence that serves to either support or counter a
scientific theory or
hypothesis. Such evidence is expected to be
empirical evidence and interpretable in accordance with
scientific method.
That sort of relationship is what is predicted by the theory of evolution. Therefore it is evidence for it. In fact it fits that definition perfectly. It also gives you a chance to refute evolution. If the genome of a species that is not closely related to us was more similar than that of gorillas for example, it would be evidence against the theory of evolution. Be careful if you try to check this with creationist sources. They do tend to lie. For example there are different ways of measuring similarity and have seen them measure similarity in one way for one comparison and a different way for another. One needs to use the same "ruler".
And the simplest version of the theory of evolution is perhaps the gene allele defintion:
evolution: Darwin defined this term as "descent with modification." It is the change in a lineage of populations between generations. In general terms, biological evolution is the process of change by which new species develop from preexisting species over time; in genetic terms, evolution can be defined as any change in the frequency of alleles in populations of organisms from generation to generation.
Evolution: Glossary