The Bible does set the standard for marriage
No. It doesn't. Marriage was around long before the bible was written. Hebraic marriage was around long before the bible was written.
even the words of Jesus Christ himself...
We don't know with any degree of certainty what "Jesus himself" said.
"And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”
(Matt 19:4-6 NASB) Male and female...man and wife, yoked together by God....marriage.
Is that Jesus talking? Or is it the writer of Matthew having Jesus, as a character in his story, say that?
Marriage is God's arrangement.....as Jesus said.
The whole biblical idea of marriage is wrapped up in cultural ideas that we discard, such as rape victims having to marry their rapist, because they are now "one flesh." It's wrapped in an understanding that being oriented toward the same sex is impossible -- which we now know simply isn't the case.
When you yoke two animals together, you place them as a team, working together to get a job done. The man and his wife are yoked together as a team in marriage.
And the biblical understanding is that the work to be done is "making babies." The "wasting of a man's seed" was a pretty big offense in that world. But when we live in an
overpopulated world, in which various usurping powers aren't trying to "breed the Hebrew out of us," the impetus to immediately start popping out puppies isn't so wrapped up in the act of marriage.
What on earth are you talking about?
Biblical marriage, of course. Didn't you know that rape victims had to marry their rapist? Didn't you know that marriages were arranged, and that underage girls were married off? Didn't you know that the husband had full control of his wives (plural) and concubines legally? Where have
you been when they talked about the bible in bible study?
God did not introduce polygamy or concubinage or surrogacy in Israel, but they were tolerated for a time and the women were protected under the law.
Uh huh. That's why those things were part of the same corpus of law that says "homosexuality bad!" You insist that the "homosexuality bad!" part is immutable, but the part that says girls have to marry their rapist is not. Why is that? It's all either good or it's not. Right?
Ishmael was produced by surrogacy but he was not the seed through whom the Messiah was said to come. Isaac had that role, the legitimate son of Abraham and his wife.
You, of course, realize that the whole story is just that -- a mythic tale -- and not actual history? It makes a theological -- not a legal -- point. You further note that 1) Hagar was a slave, and 2) Abraham wasn't condemned for going against God's mandate of "one man/one woman." So why are you so quick to have God condemn homosexuals?
I said "the standard for marriage", not its legal basis under the laws of the land.
And you will note that it is the state -- not the church -- who issues the standard for who may be granted a license. In many states and countries, that standard includes homosexuals.
If the law was to introduce a legally recognized marriage between same sex couples, that does not justify those who claim to be Christians to break God's laws on marriage.
Of course it does. Same as Christians justify eating shellfish and wearing 50/50 cotton/poly shirts and not keeping Kosher.
God would not recognize such a marriage no matter what the law said. Man's law does not override God's law.
Of course God would, because God always recognizes love. God allowed God's Self to be killed according to Roman law. Jesus said for us to abide by the laws of the land.
God does not leave us to "think" about any of it. His standards are stated very clearly in the scriptures.
Apparently not, because it seems everyone has a different opinion about what God's standards are. Does God condone slavery? Subjugation of women? Racial discrimination? Some believe so. Some believe that God doesn't love some human beings or care about some of them.
It is not "dictating" to anyone to tell them what God's word says
It is when one insists that one's interpretation is the
ONLY valid interpretation.
do you have a problem with God's word?
I have a problem with what some insist "God's word" to be.
Do you "officiate" at weddings in the capacity of a civil celebrant or as clergy in a church? If it is the latter, then your posts are very telling.
Choice B. And yes, my posts state very clearly that I side on the side of love, compassion, fairness, equality, inclusion, welcome, openness, reason, the dynamic of God working through humanity -- not dictating
to humanity. I operate out of a stance that when the bible says we were created "very good," that's what the bible means, and that people are capable of doing the best they can -- that that's good enough for God, and that God endorses our attempts to love freely. God doesn't have to make us toe some narrow line in order to be "good enough." I operate out of love for God -- not fear of God.
But you'd rather hide in your little corner and insist that the rest of the world follow suit.
Are you playing Russian Roulette with the word of God? Jesus' words do not mean that he sacrificed his life for law breakers.
Of course he did. All sin, do they not? (BTW: do you keep all the law -- or just the part that says "homosexuality bad!"?)
Those who claim to be Christian but who flout the laws of God will have no part with Jesus. (Matt 7:21-23) We don't get to dictate our own terms in worship.....or marriage.
And yet... that's precisely what you do: dictate the terms you *believe* are correct, and flout the ones you *believe* are not.
Jesus' sacrifice was offered for the sin of Adam, thereby releasing his children from their inheritance of sin and death. (Rom 5:12)
He did not die to justify willful and deliberate sins committed by us....we pay for those ourselves......you know "the wages of sin...."?
IOW, the whole "...and [Jesus] is the perfect offering for our sin, and not for ours only, but for the sin of the whole world" thing is a lie.
Are you yourself gay sojourner?
Nope. I'm just a guy who's happily married to my wife, and defends wholeheartedly my call to bring good news to the oppressed, to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and release to the prisoners, and to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor. I defend the biblical values of love, justice, compassion, mercy, forbearance, equity, and fairness
for all people.
Is that why there is so much sarcasm in your replies?
The sarcasm comes from dealing with people who twist the bible to promote indifference, entitlement, ambivalence, harshness, legalism, judgmentalism, and oppression.
Good grief......you know the more I dialogue with you, the more I find that you are far from the teachings of Christ, yet you pretend to know him.
I know a Jesus who is honest, fair, loving, compassionate, kind, forbearing, gentle. A Jesus who welcomes the outcast, includes the disenfranchised, stands in the midst of the marginalized, lifts up the lowly, and does not for one minute tolerate the systemic violence of discrimination based upon "biblical belief."
What Jesus do
you know?
Would you like to write your own Bible. I'm sure it would suit you much better than the one you ignore now.
That's funny. I'm not the one ignoring the fact that the bible doesn't condemn homosexuality.