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Mormon Church To US Supreme Court: Ban Gay Marriage

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Ingledsva

HEATHEN ALASKAN
The Catholic church should be allowed to place children in Catholic homes, where that religion is practiced. There's nothing wrong with a parent using an adoption agency that matches their values, when placing their own child up for adoption.

Fact of the matter is that children from non-religious people also end up in that adoption agency.

As an adoption agency, - they have to follow the law. If they don't want to, - then get out of the adoption business.

Also, - they break the law - by having a religious clause. The people adopting must be religious. This obviously discriminates against non-religious potential parents.

So- they are discriminating against more than just same-sex couples.

AS SUCH - they should lose their licenses.

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Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
How are these things measured? What are the standards to which they were compared? Did these studies continue to follow-up on these children into their teens or adulthood?
They followed people around from childhood to well into adulthood. They've did questions, interviews, surveys, check ups, checked mental health, social health, morals and ethics, grades in school - overall they have been thoroughly examined. Of course there are a handful of papers that show bad things happen, but one meta-analysis of a chunk of data showed a positive outcome for the children of homosexual parents in over 90% of the studies examined.
Actually, any and all questions I’d have for you about these studies could easily be answered if you’d only share a link to this “meta-analysis” like I asked you to last week in post #862.
I already did, awhile ago. I even brought it up a few times after I initially posted it.
Considering that I love others and that I believe that homosexuality is destructive to those that practice it, the “same-sex marriage” topic concerns me greatly and it is very alarming.
And you're over reacting. There is not destruction going on.
Millions of people disagree and many lawsuits have been and will continue to be filed.
The number of people who believe in something is irrelevant, and a lawsuit filed means nothing until it has been evaluated.

People keep trying to make this issue about that issue, but they are not the same. Apples to oranges.
It is the same, as due the a "sincerely held religious belief," an entire group was discriminated against and not allowed equal right and protections under the law, and told they weren't even allowed in some businesses as a matter of policy.

I was merely stating that the Supreme Court’s decision had sparked some unrest in certain members of the LDS Church over this issue.
So? Discriminatory policies should make people uncomfortable.

The State is trying to force the Church to change their definitions of what a “marriage” and “family” are, which would change their doctrine.
That is not happening.

For people claiming to want “freedom”, they don’t seem to understand that that should apply to people you disagree with too.
Sure, some, but criticizing is not the same as attempts to silence. I don't say "shut up," I say "you are wrong."

Same-sex couples are free to choose other organizations to receive adoption services.
Shouldn't the children have the right to go to a home that wants to take them in, free of what someone who has no stake in the issue thinks?

Also, yes, the State is trying to force the Church to change their doctrine concerning marriage because the State is demanding the Church to recognize those “same-sex marriages”.
Again, they are not.

If I am truly free to believe what I want, then I should not have to recognize “same-sex marriage”.
You can do that, it is your right. However, just because you have the right to something doesn't pardon things that result in bigotry.

Not all Republicans are religious. Neither are all Democrats irreligious.

Nothing you just said disproves my point that nothing is absolute in regards to Man’s laws.
I am very aware of that. However, the very general trend is that Republicans are fueled by the Religious Right.

The “next generation of young voters” will change even more stuff up until the U.S. Constitution is completely disregarded.
It wasn't intended for us to stick with the constitution for more than a few decades. The Founding Fathers didn't want the dead to govern the living. Jefferson would be ashamed that we haven't already disregarded and updated it.

So you agree with the people who chose to refuse marriage services to same-sex couples?
If it is their own private establishment. For people like Kim Davis, who are public servants, those in her position do not have such a right to deny based on personal beliefs.

Hard for me to tell considering the ignorant claim you made about religions just wanting to deny minorities their rights.
I live in a place where it's a frequent thing. It gets so bad here that several years ago a judge told a divorcing Wiccan couple they could not expose their child to "non-mainstream" religions, even though both parents were in mutual agreement over their Wiccan beliefs and teaching them to their child.

If you know “much more”, or practically anything about the doctrinal stances of these religions, you never would have made that claim.
I said it, because I live in it. Unfortunately, I a part of my existence is having to deal with religious people who persecute pretty much anyone who isn't like them. It's far from everyone being like that, but yet there are still a ton of people here who want to deny me my rights just because I hold positions, views, and identities that are counter to their personal beliefs. They don't want to just tell me I'm a sinner, they want to get involved legally and prevent us from having equal rights and privileges and even stripping us of rights and privileges where they can. Over nothing more than religion.

How long does something need to consistently happen until it can be considered “traditional”?
It depends. With something like marriage, there is no real traditional practice of it, as it is very sensitive to not only culture, but also time. We may mock and ridicule first cousin pairing in the Western world today, but the facts are it was normal and accepted in the not-too-distant past.

Oh of course! The only “true experts” are those that agree with you, right?
The good thing about science is it doesn't matter who I agree with. When there are studies that are replicated or show trends that surface within groups, we are given lots of data, and we can examine what the data shows. That is what science is showing us, through a process that relies on not the findings of one or even a few but of many, and the findings of the many are strongly congruent in that homosexuality is not a problem or an issue, for themselves, neighborhoods, or any children they may have.

No “true expert” would be a “Christian” because anyone with half a brain knows there is no God, right? (Note: Sarcasm)
I never said such a thing. Conservative Christians to have a general trend of pooling from a limited pool of sources, and it does tend to be Freudian in nature. Those the things alone are major red flags.

I contend that the refusal to recognize “same-sex marriage” is not discriminatory at all.
You can, but it does lead to it.

I challenge you to share cases of discrimination in regards to this issue and I bet the only cases of true discrimination were caused by someone’s personal opinion and action and was not endorsed by the actual doctrine of any religion.
Insurance policies, taxes, marriage hospital visitation, jobs, housing - these things that are granted without question or regard have been denied to homosexuals, many of them even be granted them only to be later stripped once they are "discovered," and there is very typically and very frequently Conservative Christian ideology behind it.

Open the scriptures and show me where this is taught.
That homosexuals should be killed because they are an abomination and their blood is on them?

Why should a public school, which I help fund, teach what I consider offensive?
Because you don't get to dictate what the masses are exposed to.

Why would I need to “avoid” this? Can’t the school accommodate me and my children?
No, because if we make a special exception for one, you have to make special exceptions for all.

Why would my children need to go somewhere else?
Because you have a problem with a tolerant society that accepts people rather than shunning them.

Why do you and other people assume so much about a person just because they have religious reasons for opposing homosexuality and “same-sex marriage”?
It's not an assumption when someone says homosexuals shouldn't be allowed to adopt, and they can pretty much only give Christian sources as an explanation as to why. They don't want homosexuals to get married, but they can only draw from their own religious biases to establish a reason. It's not an assumption when someone is telling you.

I was not advocating this idea. What made you think that I was?
Because you stated an opposition to public schools teaching things contrary to your own religious dogma.

This is not true. This would be impossible to prove.
It has been proven. Like it or not, homosexuality has been observed in a ton of animals, it's proven that sexuality and sexual orientations aren't really binary and the can be more fluid rather than concrete, and we know that nobody chooses their sexual orientation. It just happens.

 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
The Catholic church should be allowed to place children in Catholic homes, where that religion is practiced. There's nothing wrong with a parent using an adoption agency that matches their values, when placing their own child up for adoption.
It's wrong because it ignores the needs of the child, a child who could have otherwise been placed in a loving and caring home, but because of bickering adults the children get caught in the middle of the crossfire and people rarely bring them up when they are the ones who have the most at stake in the issue.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
People keep trying to make this issue about that issue, but they are not the same. Apples to oranges
Yeah, they are. Nearly every argument used against homosexuality (and the tactics used to alienate homosexuals) is exactly the same as the ones used against blacks. Including "doctrine."

Forcing a Church to offer services to those they deem unworthy, according to their doctrine and interpretation of scripture

I believe that the Catholic Church should be able to refuse their services to anyone they consider unworthy, according to their doctrine and interpretation of scripture
It's not up to the church to decide who's "unworthy" to adopt, based solely on belief. That's why state guidelines are in place.

How long does something need to consistently happen until it can be considered “traditional
"Untraditional" marriage has been around a loooooot longer than "traditional"marriage. Hate to tell ya.
 

The Emperor of Mankind

Currently the galaxy's spookiest paraplegic
I never said that the State had forced any Church to offer services to those they deemed unworthy. What I had said was that the State had been trying to forcethese churches to do just that by redefining “marriage” and “family”.

No it hasn't. This is blatantly untrue. The situation before the Supreme Court ruling on whether gays had equal marriage rights is that marriage was legally defined between one man and one woman a.k.a. the Christian definition. With the Supreme Court ruling, that first legal definition remains, and it has been expanded to include two consenting adults. It hasn't been replaced or gotten rid of. Your Church can still run with the first definition.

Even if the first definition had been completely supplanted by the second, there is no mechanism in American law that could force the LDS Church to change what it regards as 'sacred' marriage.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Why should a public school, which I help fund, teach what I consider offensive?

Why would I need to “avoid” this? Can’t the school accommodate me and my children?
Because it's not about you. It's about society.

Why do they have to teach that homosexuality and “same-sex marriage” are morally acceptable
Because they are.

Homosexuality is “abnormal”. It is not “normal”. That is not saying that it is “evil” or “weird”
Yes. It is. Read the DSM IV and V.

Everyone sins and are therefore considered “sinners”. E-V-E-R-Y-O-N-E-
But not everyone is discriminated against based upon who they are.

I don’t want to deny anyone their basic human rights. I don’t consider marriage to be a basic human right
what you consider is immaterial. The government considers it such.

I have been talking about homosexuality being immoral and that “same-sex marriage” is not sanctioned by God. I have also been talking about how the Federal government and others have been pressuring religions to change their doctrine on this issue.

When have I said that homosexuals (or anyone) should not be treated with respect or dignity
The moment you label someone's very identity as a human being as "not normal" and "immoral," you cease to treat them with respect.
 

Serenity7855

Lambaster of the Angry Anti-Theists
Oh, please. The Holy Spirit told me the exact opposite. Now what? Claims like this are useless as teats on a bull. The H. S. Is efficacious in terms of personal conviction, not generalized textual criticism.

I tell you what we can do, you listen to who you think the Holy Ghost is and I will listen to who I think the Holy Ghost is. That will solve the issue. Of course they are useless to you because you have never felt the influence of the Holy Ghost. If you had then you would not be repudiating someone who genuinely has. But please, if you do not believe that the Holy Ghost speaks to the children of God substantiate your claim.

It strikes me as odd that you are reasonably well versed on Christianity yet you use that knowledge to discredit it. It would seem as though you were once an active Christian, who was unable to attain a testimony from the Holy Ghost, because of your lifestyle and level of righteousness, so, you critique others who claim that they have. Thinking, but I was a Christian and you never experienced the Holy Ghost, so he cannot possibly exist, which means that those who claim that they have are either liars, or experiencing an efficacious event, right?

I am not such a person who would allowed myself to be fooled by myself or make such a claim without being satisfied that what I have said is true and accurate, however, for those who have not been blessed with a spiritual witness there is no reason why they should believe me. The Holy Ghost may be efficacious in your experience, however, I try not to dupe myself or anybody else.

You have to attain a certain level of righteousness in order for the Holy Ghost to communicate with you. It would seem obviously that you have never reached that level. Your own words condemn you. If you had of received revelation from the Holy Ghost then you would be a fully fledged Christian living a Christ Centered life. You would not be bringing doubt upon it if you had ever received a testimony from the Holy Ghost. You have obviously never received the testimony of the Spirit of God, which makes you unqualified to past judgement.

1. A witness of the Holy Ghost is predicated on the individuals immoral deportment.
2. Once you receive a witness then there is no going back, you can never deny it.
3. You are effectively denying it, therefore, it is fair to assume that you have never received it
3. By contradicting someone else's claim that they received a witness indicates that you do not recognize the phenomenon to be true, therefore, you could not have witnessed it.
4. Conclusion - You have not received a witness with the likely reason being lack of worthiness, therefore, you cannot assert that others have not.
 
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Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
It's wrong because it ignores the needs of the child, a child who could have otherwise been placed in a loving and caring home, but because of bickering adults the children get caught in the middle of the crossfire and people rarely bring them up when they are the ones who have the most at stake in the issue.
I do wonder why children are so often ignored and occasionally do end up caught in the cross-fire of feuding adults. Divorce is another issue, one where parents are prone to using their children as tools, as a means to and end, and never giving a damn about their own child.
It's about the same with adoption. There are a lot of children who need homes. Why should they denied a loving, stable, and caring environment, which is what science shows that children need first-and-foremost, just because of personal religious views?
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
4. Conclusion - You have not received a witness with the likely reason being lack of worthiness
So god is an exclusivist who only picks those whom he deems worthy to share in eternal secrets and esoteric messages? I thought he "so loved the world?" That it wasn't an issue of him choosing, but of us accepting?
 

Scott C.

Just one guy
It's wrong because it ignores the needs of the child, a child who could have otherwise been placed in a loving and caring home, but because of bickering adults the children get caught in the middle of the crossfire and people rarely bring them up when they are the ones who have the most at stake in the issue.

I'm not sure what you're saying. I'm suggesting that if a devout Catholic gets pregnant and wants a loving devout Catholic couple to raise the child, they should be able to go to Catholic adoption to make sure that happens. Surely the natural parent has the right to decide on the religion of the adopting family.
 

fantome profane

Anti-Woke = Anti-Justice
Premium Member
I'm not sure what you're saying. I'm suggesting that if a devout Catholic gets pregnant and wants a loving devout Catholic couple to raise the child, they should be able to go to Catholic adoption to make sure that happens. Surely the natural parent has the right to decide on the religion of the adopting family.
I'm not sure about that. I think that all that matters is the best interest of the child. I don't see how the parents have any such right to specify the religion of the adoptive family.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
It strikes me as odd that you are reasonably well versed on Christianity yet you use that knowledge to discredit it.
I don't discredit Christianity. I only discredit the sort of short-sighted and egocentric, entitled self-indulgence that masquerades as "true Christianity" -- the sort that causes people to perpetuate the systemic violence in the name of "righteousness" that Jesus decried.

Of course they are useless to you because you have never felt the influence of the Holy Ghost. If you had then you would not be repudiating someone who genuinely has.
You have no idea who I am, or what I have or have not experienced. It's obvious to anyone with a brain stem that one who is a member of the clergy would have had significant and deep spiritual formation and is intimately acquainted with the Spirit and how it works, both in the lives of people and the church. Often, the Spirit unsettles us, rather than makes us comfortable. One thing the Spirit never does is put a truth upon us that serves to dehumanize any minority person, as you have consistently demonstrated here. Your ad hominem here is not a conviction on your part, but a cheap attempt at provocation. It won't work. I have a high degree of confidence in my own spiritual formation, and cannot be shaken by such obvious and vulgar tactics. Sorry -- no sale here, Skeezix.

It would seem as though you were once an active Christian, who was unable to attain a testimony from the Holy Ghost, because of your lifestyle and level of righteousness, so, you critique others who claim that they have. Thinking, but I was a Christian and you never experienced the Holy Ghost, so he cannot possibly exist, which means that those who claim that they have are either liars, or experiencing an efficacious event, right
It would seem as though you can't refute my arguments and have no other riposte but to intimate that I'm not a "real Christian." The only claim I've made is that the Holy Spirit does not trump critical textual study.

I am not such a person who would allowed myself to be fooled by myself or make such a claim without being satisfied that what I have said is true and accurate, however, for those who have not been blessed with a spiritual witness there is no reason why they should believe me
You'd be the first such person who has never doubted.

You have to attain a certain level of righteousness in order for the Holy Ghost to communicate with you. It would seem obviously that you have never reached that level
It would seem obvious that your own inner struggle has resulted in "analysis" of one whom you don't know that is tenuous at best, and embarrassing for you at most.

If you had of received revelation from the Holy Ghost then you would be a fully fledged Christian living a Christ Centered life. You would not be bringing doubt upon it if you had ever received a testimony from the Holy Ghost. You have obviously never received the testimony of the Spirit of God, which makes you unqualified to past judgement.
I'm not bringing doubt upon it -- only pointing out your hubris.

1. A witness of the Holy Ghost is predicated on the individuals immoral deportment.
2. Once you receive a witness then there is no going back, you can never deny it.
3. You are effectively denying it, therefore, it is fair to assume that you have never received it
3. By contradicting someone else's claim that they received a witness indicates that you do not recognize the phenomenon to be true, therefore, you could not have witnessed it.
4. Conclusion - You have not received a witness with the likely reason being lack of worthiness, therefore, you cannot assert that others have not
I know hyperbole when I see it.
 
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sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
I'm not sure about that. I think that all that matters is the best interest of the child. I don't see how the parents have any such right to specify the religion of the adoptive family.
They don't. Giving up one's parental rights cuts all conditional strings.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
I'm not sure what you're saying. I'm suggesting that if a devout Catholic gets pregnant and wants a loving devout Catholic couple to raise the child, they should be able to go to Catholic adoption to make sure that happens. Surely the natural parent has the right to decide on the religion of the adopting family.
If they are really concerned for the well being of the child, they should want it to go to a loving, caring, and stable home. They should simply get over themselves, and look out for what is best for the child. And as hard as it may be to swallow, that does not inherently include Catholicism, or any other religion.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
If they are really concerned for the well being of the child, they should want it to go to a loving, caring, and stable home. They should simply get over themselves, and look out for what is best for the child. And as hard as it may be to swallow, that does not inherently include Catholicism, or any other religion.
Nor does it inherently exclude any minority group which the former parents may personally find distasteful.
 

Scott C.

Just one guy
I'm not sure about that. I think that all that matters is the best interest of the child. I don't see how the parents have any such right to specify the religion of the adoptive family.

Once the child is adopted they lose their rights. But, until then, they can decide.
 

Scott C.

Just one guy
If they are really concerned for the well being of the child, they should want it to go to a loving, caring, and stable home. They should simply get over themselves, and look out for what is best for the child. And as hard as it may be to swallow, that does not inherently include Catholicism, or any other religion.

In your opinion there's no value in raising a child up Catholic. But that's not your call. It's the parent's call.
 
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