namaskaram Nayana ji
Yes, this is my very first time to Vrindavan AND India. My family is from Yawal, near the Maharashtra/MP/Gujarat boarder and I grew up in australia around the Hare Krishna ISKCON movement.
you have raised some very interesting points in this post , ....please if you dont mind my asking you are of Indian decent , although you are born in Australia ? ...do you think this makes things a little different for you ?
here in the UK the Indian Families are very keen to bring their children up in some kind of temple enviroment and start them following the principles from an early age ,....
this link you gave is very interesting
, ....My years as a Hare Krishna , ......although the writer is speaking about Australia what she says is also very typical here is the UK , ....many westerners un UK and Europe start when they are younger with high ideals but a fair percentage drop out again , ...it is not so much due to ISKCON politics as it is due to the western mentality , ...
so many times it is due to the influence of other freinds , work colegues etc , ...A lot of westerners join because it is like droping out of the societal l norms for a westerner , it is a great life being a devotee when you are young it is like one Giant party , ....travel , go to India , ...but westerners who are not brought up in the tradition often dont fully understand the concept of surrender , ..so because of this there are many personality clashes and fallings out .
My parents met in ISKCON and married. My mother later accepted a Guru, Narayana Maharaja. So i guess we are Gaudiya Math and not strictly ISKCON however, I was briefly in childhood part of ISKCON. There isn't really a difference, ISKCON is great as a place to learn for anyone, however as an organisation there are huge issues that are never dealt with. Whenever I hear the story of someone leaving Gaudiya Vaishnavism it seems its mainly due to opinions and problems with ISKCON rather then literature and the religion itself.
I have freinds who left Gaudiya Math , ...the problem is allways over opinions and power struggles within the management , ....If we can see past this and just concentrate on our sadhana things are very different , ...
This is an example. Its seems this is a common theme for devotees from places in the 'west'.
the link you gave was interesting , and yes very tipical of the west , the temptation of material life is still very strong so for many it is a bit of a battle deciding which to follow , ...
On one hand I can understand why ISKCON tries to control the reading material and learning of people in the movement to make sure they develop a strong base of understanding to build upon which many have done successfully, but this gets abused a lot. Religious organisations are a magnet for megalomaniacs and narcissists.
I think this must be a problem for all organisations , ...the ego is very strong in this age of Kali .... this is why I ask if you feel growing up in an Indian devote family helps , prehaps by training you in the correct attitude to devotional life from an early age ?
I notice now that more temples here are becoming prediminantly Indian with fewer westerners ,....the book reading and strict study programs are to make sure that they do not loose their Culture , ...I think ISKCON is going through some big changes , ....
Well I stayed in a temple next to Imlee Tal and just behind Seva Kunj called Gopi Nath Bhavan. Some titles that I bought were: "Walking with a saint 2007", "The nectar of Govardhana Lila", "Jaiva Dharma", "Caitanya-caritamrta", "The art of Chanting Hare Krishna" *I will edit in more*.
I haven't had a chance to read them all yet.
sounds wonderfull , ....how long did you stay ?