Not a God that is only loving, but God that is both loving and merciful in it's proper place, and severest in punishment and vengeance in the proper place.I believe God is love. Will a loving God sends his children to eternal hell or destroy their soul? I dont think so
A Just Loving God is not easy to accept, because, we have to strive and defeat the evil nafs and Satan, but it's better then deluding ourselves and waking up to the truth when too late.