so what I am getting form this is some people worship many Gods and some worship a few and then some only worship one. I guess what ever works for you right?
Wow. A lot can happen in a thread whilst an old body sleeps.
Yes, ultimately it is whatever works for you. In the beginning stages of learning, most people try a few places, something like looking for a new car, or house ... you don't just buy the first one you see.
Others are so impulsive they just buy all the houses, all the cars. Fortunately, that too is done in Hinduism. I didn't buy the first couple of Hinduism versions I ran into, but when I did run into mine I really knew it. So after that things were pretty clear.
So I'd suggest sort of trying each one out at a time, remembering how it goes, spending some time (at least 3 months or so, I figure) within a certain tradition. Then you have a better idea. Same too with philosophy. If you read two differing viewpoints every second day, no single concept really settles in, and then you come out of that experience believing nothing at all.
Personally, the combining of all traditions at the same time just doesn't work for me. There is a tried and true pattern that the Swaminarayan devotees as well as many others like me who have gone before you, have figured out. And that is to stick with one thing. I believe in monogamy for life, more or less. One life, one wife. One life, one faith. Maybe next lifetime, with God's guidance, it will be a different sampradaya or sect, and the soul will have new experiences there suited to further evolution.
Best wishes in sorting it all out.
As to an earlier question about who is worshipped at altars that have many Gods, usually the aarti is done to all at once. In temples or shrine rooms where there are less, and all are separated (agamic tradition) each individual murthy gets an aarti, so you're calling one at a time. "Come, Come. I beseech you to bless me with your presence."