"Nice Guy Syndrome"

[Kilgore Trout]

A few salient points:

1) Being "nice" is probably one of the least important factors in garnering the sexual interest of a female.

2) Most "nice" guys confuse being nice with being pathetic.

3) Being pathetic is probably of the most important factors for ensuring that you will not garner the sexual interest of a female.

 

[Alceste]

A few salient points:

1) Being "nice" is probably one of the least important factors in garnering the sexual interest of a female.

2) Most "nice" guys confuse being nice with being pathetic.

3) Being pathetic is probably of the most important factors for ensuring that you will not garner the sexual interest of a female.

Yeah, needy and smothering is the opposite of sexy.

 

[Straw Dog]

1) Being "nice" is probably one of the least important factors in garnering the sexual interest of a female.

2) Most "nice" guys confuse being nice with being pathetic.

3) Being pathetic is probably of the most important factors for ensuring that you will not garner the sexual interest of a female.

Valid points. It probably does have more to do with reeking of desperation. Even if you are secretly desperate, keep it on the down-low.

 

[Alceste]

Valid points. It probably does have more to do with reeking of desperation. Even if you are secretly desperate, keep it on the down-low.

Or if possible, do some work on yourself to deal with the desperation. Figure out what is at the root of your unhealthy level of need for female attention and grow out of it.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Or if possible, do some work on yourself to deal with the desperation. Figure out what is at the root of your unhealthy level of need for female attention and grow out of it.

Oh my god. I feel like you understand me like nobody else ever has. Will you be my mommy...I mean my girlfriend?

 

[Straw Dog]

Or if possible, do some work on yourself to deal with the desperation. Figure out what is at the root of your unhealthy level of need for female attention and grow out of it.

True, it is unhealthy to derive one's sense of esteem from how much attention can be attracted from the opposite sex. Rather than feigning self-reliance and confidence, it's better to actually cultivate character strengths and skills through meaningful activities. Ultimately, freedom comes from within.

 

[Alceste]

Oh my god. I feel like you understand me like nobody else ever has. Will you be my mommy...I mean my girlfriend?

Only if you don't mind sharing.

 

[methylatedghosts]

I thought this was appropriate...

 

[Penumbra]

I thought this was appropriate...

Probably the best and most concise way to sum it up ever.

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

Will you be my mommy...I mean my girlfriend?

Lol. Join the club on that one, buddy.